r/AskReddit • • 8h ago

"those little differences" Americans who visited Europe, what was surprisingly different for you?

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u/StressOk2675 6h ago

Yeah, a buddy of mine (we're both Dutch) was invited as a guest professor for a semester at a university on the East Coast.

He later told me his biggest culture shock was students attending his lectures in pajama's. And not just his morning lectures, but in the afternoon as well. Not having the decorum of even maturity to put on a simple pair of jeans and t-shirt was baffling to us.

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u/becoolnloveme 6h ago

Yeah exactly—I’m a professor and that’s why the classroom thing stands out to me…

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u/AlaChonkadonk 5h ago

Some trashy people wear PJs to the shops here in certain suburbs of Dublin. I’m not sure of their thinking - it might be ‘dole queen chic’ or an ‘I don’t give a shite what you think’ attitude. Not a thing among students AFAIK.

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u/TheBestIsaac 4h ago

It's definitely a thing in lower class areas in Scotland as well.

But not going further than like, the corner shop though.

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u/kbivs 5h ago

It's just the perk of still being in the stage of life before you join the workforce. What difference does it really make what clothes they're all wearing to class? They came, they're paying attention, they're doing the work.

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u/Rugkrabber 5h ago

Where I live we have this belief the way you dress is how serious you take something or how you feel. So when you would show up in pyjamas you give the idea you don’t care at all. But if you are dressed up neatly it shows you give a shit, and will probably be treated as such. They expand this idea to other things too. When you feel sick or unwell, it sometimes helps to dress up well again even if you go outside for only just a bit. It really does help to feel better. But that only works when you mentally have an association with how you dress equals how you feel.

Obviously not everyone agrees with it entirely about people taking it seriously, but they still follow it anyway because nobody wants to normalise pyjamas to be acceptable, basically. It’s trying to have everyone hold up to try better.

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u/ee3k 4h ago

Ugh, no sweaty suit shirts while sick.  Sweat wicking gymware under a really heavy cardigan , it's the only way

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u/becoolnloveme 5h ago

I don’t care what they wear to class. It’s just different from Europe (which was the point of the question).