r/MadeMeSmile • u/drlouies • 27d ago

Good Vibes She call him Bryan Gosling.

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u/TwinSong 27d ago

Yeah that's mean

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u/wonboodoo 27d ago

I'd happily enjoy being called the Temu version of Ryan Gosling. Mean would be calling me the Temu version of Michael Cera.

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u/MonteSilence 26d ago edited 26d ago

yeah, except it leaves you questioning whether or not you’re truly loved for you as the individual you are, apart from this girlfriend’s lifelong actor crush

when you’re being publicly shamed as the lesser version of this actor crush, how sure are you that you are being authentically loved, and not at least in part “loved” because you are in a very significant way the representation of your partner’s crush?

if this is even a joke, why would you take such a big risk in leaving your partner in uncomfortable doubt like this

my hypervigilant social intuition is ringing alarms

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u/wonboodoo 26d ago

Maybe some people are confident in who they are, in their relationship, and not insecure snowflakes 🤷. It's funny. I'd be down for being on the receiving end