r/MadeMeSmile • • 9d ago

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most wholesome thing I saw all week

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u/suprahelix 9d ago

It took me a minute to find her. I actually think they’re in par attractiveness wise, which is about average. The difference is that she puts some effort into her appearance and he put 0 effort in.  

The moral is that even if you’re at or below average looking, if you take care of yourself, you’ll be fine. Speaking from experience btw.

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u/jakethepeg1989 9d ago

Yeah, I was thinking that in the wedding pic on this post.

Like, you might not be prime Brad Pitt. But tucking your shirt in and combing your hair will go a hell of a long way to make you look presentable.

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u/hofmann419 9d ago

He didn't even tuck in his shirt and the tie was way too short. Plus, the suit definitely wasn't tailored. I can understand not having the money to get a fancy suit, but tucking in your shirt is the absolute bare minimum, especially for a wedding.

And judging from the other pictures, he definitely hasn't put in any work in his appearance at all. He could look significantly better with a nice outfit, better glasses and a good haircut.

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u/Quecksilber033 8d ago

At least it’s a brand new shirt, still has the crease!

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u/MsMarvelsProstate 9d ago

Didn't even tuck in his shirt for his wedding.

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u/sightfinder 9d ago

Or comb his hair, or tie his tie properly.

Just seems like a low-effort person not even trying to fix easily improveable things

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u/yaxir 9d ago

This actually makes me feel super guilty. I haven't taken care of myself because of my job. I really should. It's life-threatening at the moment. If I don't take care of myself I won't live long. Holy hell you're right man

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u/suprahelix 9d ago

Well, I’m right there with you. I stopped taking care of myself because of work stress. Now I’m trying to turn it around. We can do it.

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u/LemonCollee 9d ago

You both deserve it. Putting yourself first at times isn't selfish, it's being self-full. Can't pour from an empty cup.

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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 9d ago

If you think this guy is average then it just shows how low the bar is for men and how high it is for women. jfc

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u/evilblackgirl 9d ago edited 8d ago

no, she's plain/slightly unattractive while he's just straight-up ugly.

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u/Yashema 9d ago

Exactly, fine, not scoring a hottie by going viral.

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u/omnicious 8d ago

But the woman here took care of herself and ended up with someone who puts in zero effort. That's fine?

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u/AltruisticAide9776 8d ago

Hmm i don't know about them, sometimes it's just your genetics that causes you to not have symmetrical features and no amount of taking care of yourself can change that.