I'm in a strength training class, and we're doing our one rep maxes in costume on the 30th

I don’t have a brother, but I’m curious about something. I often see scenes in movies or TV shows where sisters get angry at their friends and brothers when they start dating or sleeping with each other. I’ve never understood why — what is there to be angry about? Has anyone experienced this in real life, or is it just a cliché found in teen shows ?

I just turned 20 today. It was a fun journey. The memories and the laughs were great, but now it's time for me to ascend out of my teenager years and leave y'all. If I were to give one piece of advice to anyone here stay in school, listen to your parents, and do what you love. Farewell

Built it all from an empty room

I'm fourteen and recently had my first crush. Which i gotta say, sucked. Mostly because I always made fun of my friends for having crushes through the years so it felt weird when I got mine.

But after 2 days of thinking about her, I suddenly stopped caring and now I dont have a crush anymore. But whats even funnier is that a day after my crush ended I found out she's into nerdy guys from a friend. And i'm not nerdy at all. I dont have good grades and i'm not shy or whatever. Which is funny because even if I still had a crush on her, it wouldn't matter because I never even had a ball in that court

No offence to all the men out there, but can you guys genuinely do anything on your own without any help? My brother is almost 15 and I consiconstantly have to do stuff for him. I have to wake him up, remind to wear deodorant and change his clothes, remind to to shower, make him do his homework, make him eat, brush his teeth, etc. He can't do anything on his own and I'm sick of it. He clogged the toilet and I had to unclog it. I can't anymore! He also stinks so fucking bad to the point I have to role the car windows down and I have people waking up to me in school to tell me he stinks. At his "grown" age, I shouldn't have to remind him about basic hygiene. I'm depressed as shit and struggle to get out if bed or shower most days, and STILL have better hygiene than him. UGHHH!! 😭​​​​​

Edit: Since people are crying about it, I'm not stereotyping anything, I'm just ranting omfg!! 🫩​​​

Hey guys, I'm planning to move to Japan for language school late next year/early 2028.

Is anyone doing the same, or have the same idea as me? I will be working for my tuition and apartment whole of next year and aiming to get $40,000 AUD (that will last me for 2 years without work) but I do want to work part time anyway.

I'm thinking about moving to saitama/tokyo north side. I haven't decided what school I want to go to yet still planning

Im 18M but by the time I officially move I will be 20 or nearly 20 (unc status)

She said I was a great friend tho, which is nice

So my 19th birthday was today and none of my friends from high school ( now uni) said HB, I’m not the type of person that is dramatic or causes drama but overall this is one of my sort of important things as I say happy birthday ( to almost most of them - friends) on Instagram on time or a day or so late but overall SAY IT. Now I’m not lying, I am mad , disappointed and realised how fake they are because what do you mean we are friends from high school and now uni and I always say happy birthday in your birthday via stories on insta or in general but none of them
( besides a high school mate taking gap year that I’m not as close with at all said it via Instagram).

Now a bit of a background: I don’t post at all on any social media( we mostly communicate via Instagram).
There I didn’t post anything like others.
Last year when I went on a vacation : long story short didn’t have access to wifi for a long time like at least 2 months with little to no wifi at all.
I did celebrate my birthday last year few days earlier because of school holidays and they attended my birthday ( 2 ) and one didn’t bring a gift cause they said it was last minute ( which okay but not even a flower?) and one brought a small gift. Even though there was 2 people else that I wasn’t close with ( not from high school) brought a flower and a gift separately, also said it was last minute.
I didn’t say happy birthday for both of them because I was on vacation and that was my “ revenge “ but for both I asked how it went and got a present for the one that gave me a gift later when we hangout.

Now for the others ; we are not all very closely close but we do hangout and stuff but not gift type thing but did say happy birthday and all that , how’s it going , what did you do … all the birthday questions.

BUT on my birthday none of them, not even the ones that I always say happy birthday on social media said anything. If it’s about not being active by posting stories or posts then why did that high school friend was able to reach out to me and say it? Also they did hangout with a bigger friend group ( within the high school circle ) a couple of times without ever telling me.

Am I in the wrong for being this way or are they fake af? Like it seems that it doesn’t even matter a little for them to reach out ? Also I never talked about their hangouts without telling me… as I said I’m not dramatic.

Please share your opinions and advice because I’m planing to ignore them and be cold af.
Also something I forgot to add, when we talked about birthday I said I want to celebrate my birthday on x day because of x holiday because my birthday is between tests and preparing for exams. But now I don’t even want to invite them anymore.

Because of apparently not being verified I must put the picture in the comments

We long distance and i(15F) have MANY mental health issues. I talked to him(16M) about it and weve taken a few breaks on and off but just broke up. The reason was that I need space to work on myself. I know im young to say I love him but I really do. We agreed once the fall amd winter is over(I have seasonal depression) we would talk abt getting back together and we would stay friends. This one person hes friends eith thinks I suck and im convinced im being super selfish in this whole situation. Around this time I get bored of everyone and everything and I also just.. struggle with relationships. So I suggested it and he left the desicion up to me and we broke up. I feel like im a shit person but im putting myself first so am I really?

I really just want advice on how I should handle it, how me and him should handle it. I know were just teenagers and would never last forever, but I at least want to have a chance and last a longer time. Its been 5 months.

So, im single, thus i am of coruse looking for a partner. Unfortunatley im a super picky person and refuse to be with someone who i dont intent to stay with until im dead. Thing is, i can find people like that. I like Alt styles, not "goth mommy blah blah blah" i mean alt styles in general, all of em, dosent matter what so long as it isnt boring. This leads to a very big problem in that most of the girls i find attractive are, drumroll please 🥁 🥁 🥁 LESBIAN!!! which sucks...becuase im a dude and have no interest in transitioning. That was all exposition, so hears two stories.

Story 1: Eight grade, around april, Washington D.C school trip. Super pretty girl, shes got a style thats similar to coquette or coquette adjecent, ive got heart eyes for her becuase i find that really cool and pretty and attractive. Anyways, im a pretty amicable person, we start talking, get a little closer. Me, my friend, her and one of her friends are all sitting together and eating food, eventually i find out shes a lesbian, heart eyes are gone now, i still find her pretty but ive given up trying to court her in any way.

Story 2: Tenth grade, the grade im in currently, start of the school year, english teacher sucks ahh but atleast i got a seat in the corner of the room, 3 other people sit at a table with me, 1 of them i dont talk to, the other one i was "roasting" him, the girl is sitting next to me and shes chuckling at my jokes, and shes drop dead gorgeous and is alt, basiclly dream girl. I keep talking with her, get pretty close, tell my friends i might have a crush on her, find out shes lesbian, then i heard her say it herself, heart eyes gone, ive given up courting her but i still talk with her, shes still really pretty and im still attracted to her, ive just given p any hope of our relationship going past friends.

Thanks for sitting through my yap...uhhhhhhhhhh...if youve got any input to add or maybe some cool outfits you should show me that and uhhhhh im also trying to get into some alt styles and learn my skateboard but i keep procrastinating out of fear so yeah... (to the mods, im just sharing my experinces, nothing more, nothing less)

I've spent the last week away from my family (for some super intense on campus study), and it's been amazing as much as I hate myself for feeling that way. I really want to move out, but I don't feel like I can, not just because of my financial situation but because of my family, dad's basically gone(left in june), and mum works a lot, so I look after my siblings a lot (5 of them all younger).

I really want to because this is the most free and relaxed I've felt in so long, I can actually focus on my studies, I'm actually getting the time and energy to shower regularly and take care of myself. The plan used to be move out as soon as I was done with high school so I could go to university, and now I'm in university still at home.

I feel like I'm a terrible person for wanting this, but I honestly just want this kind of peace to last, like I'm still helping sort things out from halfway across the country a fair bit of the time but I don't hate that, I want to help, even when I don't want to I still will, but anyway.

I feel like I can't move out because I need to help my family and be there for all of them. I just wish I wasn't the oldest, I wish I didn't have to be so perfect and useful, the attempt at a role model child, because trying to be everything all the time is so damn exhausting. Anyway the plan for the rest of my trip is enjoy the peace while it lasts and hate myself for every second I dream about moving out.
Rant over now lol sorry about that

Also any advice from oldest sibs on the subject/s would be appreciated

something happened, i couldve swore i was already in this subreddit but maybe not idk

Just me wanting friend 🫠

Computer, computer desk, computer chair, bed frame, bed, cool sheet, cool blanket, cool pillow, cute boy (for cuddling), ​books, dresser, clothes, and fan

your bedroom will be ahh of you dont have at least one of these things trust