r/comics • u/vesmir_neasi • Jul 28 '26

OC This could be us, but

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I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

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u/Zain_Shadowheart Jul 29 '26

Isn't mutual enjoyment the fucking POINT???

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u/morpheousmorty Jul 29 '26

You have to know there are people who don't feel that way. We're still working on people actually consenting.

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u/Devin_Grey Jul 29 '26

Isn't mutal enjoyment the POINT of fucking???

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u/LUNATIC_LEMMING Jul 29 '26

I've absolutely encountered guys where I'm convinced even they don't enjoy it.

It'd about numbers, power, and bragging rights.

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u/Kitselena Jul 29 '26

I think a lot of those guys are asexual, but either don't know that's an option or think it somehow makes them lesser so they deny it

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u/Frequent_Measurement Jul 29 '26

They need to adjust their thinking. You can have all those and still give pleasure. Power play can be fun both ways with the right partner.

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u/LUNATIC_LEMMING Jul 29 '26

Power over the other guys, not the women.

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u/Environmental_Sky143 Jul 29 '26

Then either have sex have sex with two or more male bottoms who are into power-play or make a hot sex tape/sex-stream while a guy who enjoys being cucked/has a voyeur fetish what is you please his wife/girlfriend. But have him brag about it on camera to his guy friends.

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u/Devin_Grey Aug 01 '26

I hate that I get where you're coming from. I love eating my wife out because she loses it.

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u/Aquatic_Rainbow Jul 29 '26

You’d think so but many guys like this just simply don’t care. His wants trump her needs. These dudes have a book trilogy full of excuses as to why they deserve an orgasm but women don’t

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u/Apathetic_Villainess Jul 29 '26

Sadly, plenty of men out there see women as prewarmed Fleshlights rather than partners in pleasure.

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u/FrostyEnvironment902 Jul 29 '26

Actually the point would be procreation.

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u/Hairy_Cube Jul 29 '26

Biologically and evolutionarily yeah, but socially we have developed different purposes for it

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u/FrostyEnvironment902 Jul 29 '26

I agree. But if we had to point at the POINT of it. I would never point to "socially"

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u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e Jul 29 '26

Why should the telos relate to biological incentive?

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u/FrostyEnvironment902 Jul 29 '26

I can't give you a good reason other than.

Why would it ever point to anything but the survival of self and the assurance of Continuity of the species.

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u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e Jul 29 '26

I dunno, because of how humans experience meaning? All of the sex I’ve had has been under precautions not to get someone pregnant. Either I was acting entirely without purpose, or there was a purpose other than procreation.

I will float to you that humans have instinct but they also have cognition. If I have sex someone that I love, it comes from the biological attraction I feel toward them (or arousal, more precisely) but there is also a conscious process of actually choosing to have sex. The intentional aspect is not motivated by instinct but by emotion, in this case love. I haven’t really had a lot of casual sex, but on the rare occasion I’m not in love with the person I’m sleeping with, there’s still an aspect of deepening connection.

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u/FrostyEnvironment902 Jul 29 '26

It's hard to answer, it really boils down to its meaningless and meaningful all depending on individuals and their perspectives

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u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e Jul 29 '26

In my opinion the experience of finding meaning something is an end, not a means

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u/Galaghan Jul 29 '26

I see what you mean but you have to understand people prioritize expressing anger over recognizing a pedantic comment as a joke.

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u/StickBrickman Jul 29 '26

According to DJ K, pleasing a woman or going down on one isn't very "Alpha Male." Some macho bullshit philosophy he came up with by smoking weed and misinterpreting animal facts about male lions.

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u/rtxa Jul 29 '26

to the fundamental Christians? lol of course not, not even close

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u/PorygonXY Jul 29 '26

Not only that but it is hot af to do so lmao

Hell fucking yes i love pleasing my gf and seeing her enjoy it? Please?

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u/DazzlerPlus Jul 29 '26

No, the point is validating yourself as not a loser.

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u/Harper_ADHD Jul 29 '26

I think you mean the FUCKING Point /j/lh

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u/Tablesafety Jul 29 '26

I think their thought process is rooted in trying to feel superior so they get a sort of rush and feeling of whatever warped version of "masculinity" they think is it, to have someone they see as naturally subservient to them actually allow them access to their bodies for nothing in return. It reinforces the 'I own you and it's natural' viewpoint they got going on

So to announce they don't want to please women and imply that they still have sex flags to others who have no idea what masculinity is and have replaced it with whatever the fuck this mindset is that such a boy is ''alpha''

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u/jkurratt Jul 29 '26

The point of fucking even.

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u/Fireeyes510 Jul 31 '26

Not in older generations. They’re the I got mine generation. In every sense of the word

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u/TheW83 Jul 29 '26

Right? If she's not enjoying it then I'm not enjoying it.