I had a female primary for a while and she performed a Pap smear on me (my first one). It was PAINFUL. I was crying in pain and she told me, while I was in pain, that it’s not that bad. She’s not my doctor anymore
I had four orthopedists assure me everything was completely fine with my back and that I just needed to lose weight.
My GP sent me to get an MRI - two slipped discs.
Subsequently, when I walked into my Neurologists office she looked at me like "how dare you walk in here without being called" but asked "are you miss [my name]" and I said "Yes. Hello."
"YOU'RE WALKING!? HOLY SHIT YOU MUST BE IN SO MUCH PAIN!!! PLEASE SIT DOWN NOW!"
I never felt so seen. Turns out I had just gotten "used to" compensating for my slipped discs, which caused tons of other issues that I'm still dealing with 4 years later.
Oh hey, are you me? Took 10 years to get a fenale doctor about my back pain, she did 1 simple test that made me cry out, she sent me for an mri, 2 fucked discs and a 3rd on the way. I cried from the relief of finally being believed and having proof. And that keeps happening with every issue I have- i have to fight for years before it gets taken seriously and it turns out i was right all along. I'm so worn out, and so in pain, and so angry, all the time.
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u/IIRCIreadthat Aug 01 '26
Essentially the same problem as fat people going to the doctor and being told 'you need to lose weight' no matter what their actual medical issue is.