r/bettafish • • Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - October 16 to October 22

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish • • 8h ago

Picture Love the way he looks when the light hits him

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r/bettafish • • 14h ago

Video I now understand why some call Bettas "Puppies"

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What da heck he's so cute


r/bettafish • • 49m ago

Humor My child hood tank vs my one now

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I think we’ve had an improvement


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

RIP Goodbye my sweet Pixie

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This is Pixie, he’s mine and my sister’s fish. The first betta we’ve had since we were children. We got him nearly two years ago, not long after I had to have my dog put to sleep. I immediately developed a strong connection with him. He was such a silly little guy, and brought so much joy over these last couple years. My heart hurts so much knowing that I’ll never see him dancing around his tank ever again, or tucking himself into his leaves. I just wanted to share how loved he is. Sleep well my Pixie Stix 🧚💞


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Transformation Swanson’s 6 month update

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Pictures are when I first got him, 2 weeks later and now. His fins seem to still be growing but thankfully he’s feisty so doesn’t let them hold him back. Some of his new fin growth is coming in orange which scared me at first but after some research I’m pretty sure he just has marble genes.

I’m curious if he might have been a reject from an alien line due to his very metallic appearance but regardless of what he is I love my colour shifting little grump 💕


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Help Betta too skinny?

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r/bettafish • • 59m ago

Introducing My beautiful boy, Milo!

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I’ve had a shrimp tank for a while, and I love my little sea bugs with all of my heart, but I felt like something else was due. After a few months of planning, researching, cycling, and preparing, I’ve finally gotten my betta! A week in and he’s already doing well!

I’m absolutely in LOVE with not only him but bettas in general!! I’ve been fixated on the species for a while and have been wanting to get one for such a long time. Unfortunately the last time I’d had a betta was when I was a kid and not fully equipped with the knowledge of what goes into proper fish care. Now though, I feel confident enough that I can give Milo a good, prosperous life.

I will say when people said plakats are more active than those with longer tails, I wasn’t expecting such a big difference between the two. 😭 That boy can and DOES move; he flies through that tank like he’s got somewhere to be. It’s very entertaining to watch!


r/bettafish • • 8h ago

Introducing Flame 🔥

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After losing Ruby, I decided to not purchase another fish for a while. Then I saw this guy, and he absolutely stole my heart. His bright red colors and his quirkiness remind me of Ruby ❤️🖤 Welcome to the betta family, Flame 🔥


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help ID please

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Male/female? Spade tail?


r/bettafish • • 11h ago

Picture MASSIVE bubble nest

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This is his main hobby


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Help Levels

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Hello guys. I’m colorblind, can someone advise what readings you see😂. I’m seeing

Ph- 6.4-6.6
Ammonia- 0ppm
Nitrite- maybe 0.10ppm?
Nitrate- 5.0 ppm


r/bettafish • • 47m ago

Identification is my betta a female?

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I bought a betta, Kitty, who is currently in a holding tank (different than the pic) while I finish cycling his aquascaped 10gal. He changed colors rapidly. Only thing… I’m starting to think Kitty is a girl. His fins have looked the exact same and ain’t nothing changed but his color 🤣😭 Any input?


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Discussion Betta Rescue

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Went to the store to get stuff for my dog and saw this guy…poor lil bastard was floating on his side in gnarly water. I have 2 other Bettas and a smaller 6.5 gal tank that had a bunch of Neo shrimp. Ended up spending all morning rescaping my shrimp tank to house a long finned betta. He spent a few hours in a bowl with fresh conditioned water (shallow). I’m hoping he makes it because he’s absolutely gorgeous. What are things you guys have done to rescues?


r/bettafish • • 15h ago

Name Suggestions Name suggestions for purple veil tailed betta !

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Boyfriend found someone trying to rehome some bettas from a breeder which is why the tank is smaller than ideal. He loves fish so naturally he asked if I wanted one and I fell in love with this pretty guy. I know this one is technically a boy but I’ve been calling her she, so any name suggestions are welcome (my boyfriend thinks I should name her after a type of prescription animal medicine eyedrop so really….any at all)


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Discussion New to betta fish care, advice?

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I have gotten really interested in aquariums and betta fish specifically. Now wanting to begin a new tank for a betta fish, I'm not fully sure on what supplies and brands to buy from.

Recommendations and suggestions of reliable brands to buy supplies from would be really appreciated, thank you !!!!


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Video Spent my friday night being a cave for my fish

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How do i explain this is my friday night to any sane person?


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Help Is my betta marbling???

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He is in a five gallon tank that is planted with a filter and heater. The water where I live is pretty hard but I do water changes every day and have put almond leaves in to help lower pH (pH is the only thing out of parameters). He started this about two weeks ago and I've been panicking. He eats fine, comes up to the glass, and he fins aren't clamped. There is a little red pigmentation starting on the fins but I seriously can't tell. Help!


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Help How can I help my poor fish

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I did a 50% water change last night because he was hovering at the top of the water and resting for a full day, I could barely see him breathing. Now he’s lying at the bottom and heavy breathing. My other betta in the divided tank seems happy and healthy. All water parameters are normal.

Edit: I got the liquid test kit. My nitrite levels were at .25 even after the 50% water change I did yesterday. I treated the water with prime, upped the filter to add oxygen, and added pickling salt with no additives to protect their gills. Now I’m just waiting to see what happens :(


r/bettafish • • 23h ago

Rate My Tank First time betta owner really proud of my lil babies one month progress.

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I wasn’t even planing on getting a tank but my mom has recently gotten back into fish keeping and sent me a tank out of nowhere. It was a tiny 3 gallon so I originally was only going to get neocardinia shrimp. I stopped at the petco near me one day after work to pick up a couple cleaning supplies after my tank had been cycling for a few weeks, and saw they have baby bettas. To say I was appalled is an understatement. Everyone knows how horrible bettas are treated at pet stores in general but idk why it struck me so hard seeing all those tiny babies. One was out of place of the other babies so I picked up the cup labeled “baby girl betta” with no other descriptors and she was not gonna make it through the night. She could barely swim to the top of A CUP to get air. I’ve had her for a month now and turns out I have a specials needs betta with a gill deformity. I really didn’t think she would make it but I thought taking her home was better than dying in that cup. She had a bubble trapped under her gill plate but if it got too big it would pop out and instantly be replaced with another bubble. She does still have her bubble but is doing fantastic otherwise. She hunts live detritus worms and copepods and is super spunky even jumping out of the water when she sees blood worms or pellets coming. I’m upgrading to a 20 gallon long community soon and am super excited 🫰


r/bettafish • • 9h ago

Discussion Best Tanks

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Hi all! Right now I have a 5 gallon (I think, bought it off marketplace) tank with a three filter system and would love to upgrade! I believe it is a lifeguard aquatics tank?
What are the best tanks to buy? I would love another one that has a built-in filter, but wanted to see what everyone suggestions are! I will include a picture of the one that I have.


r/bettafish • • 10h ago

Rate My Tank recently new betta tanks

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i have a halfmoon and a elephant ear (if someone knows what morph my halfmoon is pleaaaaseeee lmk!!!!) but are my tanks alright? water parameters are good for a 6gallon, i have a snail in the right one because its older and i have 3 shrimp in both. my shrimp in the right tank are NOT active at all for some reason but the shrimp in the left tank are very active and all over oryxs (black and silver) plants. i am going to get driftwood for the left tank too. i havent owned a betta since i was in middle school so i wanna make sure my bettas are as happy as possible. i do weekly 25% water changes. the alkalinity is a bit lower then id like it to be but everything else is great. also, jerry (elephant) has a slit in his tail, will that grow back or is it just stuck like that forever? i think hes recovering from finnrot because we was at the store for almost a month but it hasnt gotten any worse in the past week. theyre super active. theyre names are oryx and the taken( his shrimp), and jerry(elephant), terry, timmy, tom(shrimp), and gary(snail) :3 ANY ADVICE IS WELCOME!


r/bettafish • • 8m ago

Help Is my roommates betta tail nipping?

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My roommate got Merlot in August and I'm worried for him. She's one of those people who gets fish just for decoration and it makes me really sad seeing him getting minimal care. He has a tiny tank (1.5 liters) wayy too small for any fish. She does no water care, no cycling for cleaning (dumps out ALL the water to change it), theres only glass rocks at the bottom, only one plant and a small hideout.

I know he's miserable and it hurts me that there's nothing I can really do because its her fish, not mine. She doesn't care if he lives or dies because he's "just a fish" and it hurts my heart, I love to spend time with him and have him chase my finger around and hes just so cute.

I'm worried that his health is declining, his colors are muted and his fins are pretty frayed at the end. Is there anything I can do to make his life a little more bearable, like getting something on Amazon for his water? I can't get him a new tank because she won't let me, since he's not my fish but I want to at least do something, I feel so bad for him.

The first four pictures are of his current condition and the last picture is of him when she first got him.


r/bettafish • • 9m ago

Help swollen stomach and lethargic?

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i’ve had him for two months, never had issues until now, he was fine earlier today until i came home this evening. he’s swimming slow, stays at the bottom, and seems to be gasping for air. i’ll update with parameters in the next half hour or so