r/AmITheAngel • • 14h ago

Fockin ridic A 14 year old who uses em dashes.

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AITA gossiping about my former best friend

Am I the asshole for gossiping about my former best friend? I'm 14, and I've been best friends with this guy—who is also 14—for basically my whole life, and our families are friends.
However, over the last year since starting middle school here in Norway, we kind of grew apart because he made a very homophobic friend, and I'm gay. He started excluding me. Lately, I've been talking about him a lot with my new friends because I've been really hurt by his actions.
At the same time, there are a few weird things that make me think he might also be gay and into me. Over the last three years, he has kissed me a few times. He always initiated it and then played it off, but it felt very confusing. In a way, that's how I figured out I was gay, because I actually liked it when he kissed me. Also, one time back in seventh grade, we were all alone in a changing room and just lay there cuddling for about an hour. He was the one who initiated everything, not me.
Furthermore, since our families are friends, he stayed at my summer house for a week. There, he told me—on August 1st, though he claimed it was an "April Fools' joke"—that he was gay. Recently, I noticed he reposted a Snapchat Spotlight video about falling in love with your best friend. After I came out to him recently, he didn't really react or seem to care, but he started snapping me a lot more.
I'm just wondering: Am I the asshole for talking to my friends about this at the same school he goes to, potentially risking outing him? And also is he into me?

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u/Rangavar So I went to church and had 31 seizures 13h ago

Lots of details in the actual story don't even make sense. What kind of store lets two kids lie down in a changing room for an hour without, I don't know, asking them to leave? At least checking on them to see if there's a medical emergency?

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u/timecubelord 12h ago

I'm assuming a changing room in the school, either for the gym or for theatre kid costume changes? It doesn't say it was a store.

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u/Euphoric-Practice-83 I calmly laughed 13h ago

Chat, does kissing the homies count as being gay? I’m unsure if that means if the homies have feelings 

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