r/Anxiety • • 9h ago

Advice Needed I don’t know what to believe.

My whole life I’ve had people tell me I’m pretty. Sometimes even strangers stop me to tell me that. At the same time there are some people who talk about me and say I’m ugly. I’m confused. I’ve recently started a new chapter in my life and the same thing keeps happening to me. Some say I’m divine, and others say that I’m trash. I think I look good but I’m a very anxious person and these things still impact me a lot. When I think that tomorrow I will need to see those people again, even if they don’t know I know it makes me extremely afraid. I don’t even talk to some of them, like I say hi and bye but that’s all. I believe that this is the minimum of respect we should all have no matter who that person is. Why can’t some people understand that? And why do a lot of people gossip when we all know that gossip always spreads fast?

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u/ava_celeste18 9h ago

Beauty is subjective! People will always have different opinions about how you look you just have to learn to love yourself and then the things other people say about you won't matter to you