The hardest thing about falling to this place is, I wish my husband would see me and say something like, "I can tell you're unhappy, let's fix this together" but instead he's the source of my anguish and as I become quiet he just sees it as 1) laziness and 2) becoming compliant and easier to deal with, I guess.
As long as I'm keeping up with the dishes and the laundry he doesn't really give a shit.
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u/quillseek 4h ago
The hardest thing about falling to this place is, I wish my husband would see me and say something like, "I can tell you're unhappy, let's fix this together" but instead he's the source of my anguish and as I become quiet he just sees it as 1) laziness and 2) becoming compliant and easier to deal with, I guess.
As long as I'm keeping up with the dishes and the laundry he doesn't really give a shit.