r/AskReddit • • 16h ago

What is a quiet realization you had about your life when you hit your forties or fifties that nobody talks about in your twenties?

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u/markfitzfritzel 15h ago

Im at this point now, my next step up would be head of a department but the pay isn't anywhere near enough for the extra stress and responsibility, happily ride out the rest of my career in middle management (if I can)

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u/OakAndIron571 15h ago

I'm in the same boat

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u/FaitAccompli73 12h ago

Same - we're at a point where we're financially comfortable, we're planning on when retirement makes sense for us and it honestly doesn't seem worth time and effort to keep putting in "the grind" to get ahead.

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u/littlemsshiny 9h ago

Same. I care less about title and maximizing my pay than I do about flexibility and time with my family.