What are subtle signs someone is a bit of an instigator?

[u/telepathylove]

[u/Legend789987]

actively amplifying the negative while ignoring the positive

[u/prettylilmad → u/Legend789987]

Factsss

[u/velrovaloo → u/Legend789987]

Classic move, selective hearing at its finest just to stir up drama

[u/hangingtraveler79 → u/Legend789987]

they’ll drop a "wow that’s crazy" right after someone vents then immediately pivot to asking who else was involved, like they’re casting a reality show

[u/anita538 → u/Legend789987]

I see you everywhere???

[u/Legend789987 → u/anita538]

hey, yes

I actively post here when I have free time

[u/RosyWillow54]

They ask questions they already know the answer to just to watch the room react.

[u/eLeopardsModTeam]

They stir up drama, then act innocent when everyone starts arguing.

[u/telepathylove → u/eLeopardsModTeam]

rage bait on tiktok and instagram these days

[u/ElvisMcPelvis]

Carrying stories, spreading misinformation,

[u/Character_Bar_1290 → u/ElvisMcPelvis]

Gossip with drama....

[u/tacobaeKL]

Gossip

[u/sinsa089]

They love saying “I’m just being honest” after stirring up drama, then act innocent when everyone starts arguing.

[u/Smooth-Fig-4351]

They use you as a scapegoat…

[u/New_Government_2169]

Won’t drop a conversation and change subjects when the convo clearly isn’t going well or is making others feel awkward.

[u/userunknowned]

If they are a firestarter, a twisted firestarter

[u/TapeDeckSlick]

Wouldn't you like to know dickhead

[u/luminotionmedia]

The complain about a lot of other people to you

[u/Pretty_Love5218]

Joining conversations that you don’t belong in, in the first place

[u/Wolf8312]

Someone who will tell you bad things that others have said about you. Not because they care but because they want you to know!

[u/DJbuddahAZ]

You just need to meet my ex wife, she'll rage bait you just for exsisting

[u/RockyBooBoa]

You see them instigating.

[u/Master_Baiter8]

The person who always seems to have a little something to say.

[u/Crystaltheweirdo]

Haha! I dunno. 🤔

[u/Jesters_thorny_crown]

This is a stupid fucking question. You are just going to get a bunch of dumbasses commenting half assed opinions.

Edit: I can see irony is lost on some of you.

[u/Long_Industry7517 → u/Jesters_thorny_crown]

I'm pretty new to Reddit but isn't that the deal?

[u/Jesters_thorny_crown → u/Long_Industry7517]

I was being an instigator. Maybe I was too subtle.

[u/telepathylove → u/Jesters_thorny_crown]

why are u so mad damn?

[u/Jesters_thorny_crown → u/telepathylove]

I was being an instigator. Perhaps I was too subtle.