I’m exhausted and annoyed and all I want is just to move on with my life and work, I understand the job market in the world isn’t it. And I’m genuinely trying my best. Even done differently studies provided by France Travail (Which I am not complaining about) but it is an endless cycle.
I came to France and had a company drop the contract last minute. Shit happens, I am young and can look for opportunities elsewhere (but it was already too late to go back to my home country for various reasons) I got rejected multiple times by the CPAM to get my Carte Vital, which made me late on getting my social security number, which made me not possible to subscribe with France Travail without one (nor opening a bank account etc) my lovely family inlaw helped my massively by briefly hiring me in their company. Which gave me finally the opportunity the obtain my SS number. By then I couldn’t apply for a chômage anymore (despite always having worked inside another EU country, which gave me a greenlight to demand for it in France)
In the 3 years this has happened, I have worked brief interims or did studies, which gave me some money (not even close to enough to provide for a life, but I have an amazing supportive partner that financially supports me, but even than it is a struggle and we don’t live luxurious at all, not our goal either) which I have all saved up for driving lessons one day.
Because my partner is the sole earner at the moment I go to where he has to work. As his job is a certain niche, it isn’t always in the area of friends and family. At the moment we are located around poitiers, where I have worked on studying for the code the la route (which I passed first time little yeey for me) and thus I could start driving lessons. But my partner’s contract isn’t extended and we do not know if we financially could stay here. And therefore I haven’t started lessons yet. As I cannot afford or justify starting lessons and than have to move elsewhere possibly in less than a month.
In this time I am also talking to a company that is directed to me by France Travail who is ‘supposed’ to help me with finding work. But this is what is making me exhausted and annoyed, I have explained to my conseiller the situation and that I really need to have a job before I can start my license because let’s get real life is not cheap. I told her I was flexible with walking and bicycling and that on certain moments my partner could drive me, depending on location and times. I know it is difficult and it is easier to find work with a license, but it isn’t gonna appear in 1 month.
She agreed, told me to it was gonna be a but harder to find jobs, and I agreed with her. She told me she would put the search circle to 10 KM.
Later I received offers from the other way of poitiers, which is 1,5 hours of driving by car. ~5 hours by bicycle what maps said to me😓 I pointed it out the other rdv and she was like yea not possible it is 10KM max.
It happened again all offers 1,5H away from me by car. And she finally saw it in by herself.
Then she tells me she has a job offer nearby on call and I asked her where she found it as I would love to look and apply to it. She told me she would email it to me and I could apply after the meeting.
She never did. I had to dig for days for it by myself and by the time I applied and called the position was filled (unfortunately it wasn’t mentioned on the listing)
I am getting annoyed as when i call my conseiller, she doesn’t answer, if I ask for things, she doesn’t supply, if I ask her in general questions (which she mentions in call that I can email her questions and she would reply) she doesn’t reply. Hell I have to run after het every time I have a rdv with her as she doesn’t even email me links to the rdv, she emails them like 1 minute before the rdv happens. When she can email me when a rdv doesn’t work in her favour and asked me to reschedule. Even there she mentions in the email: I will send you to link for our new rdv this afternoon. And surprise she never did.
I’m genuinely getting pissed off as I not only have do the job hunting myself (which is a given) but someone that is supposed to help me out, isn’t and I have to run after that too?! (As FT made it noticeable to me the rdv with this company are obligated)
I genuinely feel like she isn’t putting any effort into me (as the government doesn’t pay me chômage, si what do they have to lose?), sure she probably elsewhere is a kind lady, but I just feel so much struggle with her.
I hope for me and the situation we can go back to temporarily live with the inlaws, not ideal, but it gives me ground for doing my license and having a roof over my head. And possibly go back to volunteering at my local La Croix Rouge which I genuinely enjoyed and gave me already some great experiences, that I hope to place on my cv so I can use for future too. Because I know what I want to do when I have my license and that is work for ADMR or something similar.
TLDR:
Anyone else have a ‘shitty’ conseiller provided by a company that is forced on you by France Travail, how do you deal with it?
Or anyone happy positive stories after having job struggles in France market too?