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Historical figure Alice of Great Britain (1843 - 1878): Just being ahead of her time
Alice was born on 25 April 1843 at Buckingham Palace as the third child of Queen Victoria and Prince Albert. Her birth was not exactly met with the same jubilation as that of her brother, Bertie. Nevertheless, Albert was happy to have another healthy child.
Despite Alice being born at Buckingham Palace, the royal couple decided to establish another family residence at Osborne House, believing it would better accommodate their growing family. Like her older sister, Vicky, Alice received an education overseen by her father, who wanted to instil in his children the values of personal liberty, modesty, and compassion for the common people.
As a result of their upbringing, the two sisters would remain close for the rest of their lives. From a very young age, Alice showed an intense curiosity about the world around her. It was not uncommon for her to wander beyond her designated surroundings or chat with the staff working at the royal residences.
During the Crimean War, in which Britain fought against Russia, Alice accompanied her mother on visits to hospitals where wounded soldiers were being treated. The experience revealed her compassionate nature and would have a profound impact on the princess's worldview.
Her compassion was demonstrated again in 1861, when her grandmother, the Duchess of Kent, died. Despite the Duchess's role in the Queen's strict upbringing, Victoria deeply mourned her mother. Alice was there to comfort her, which earned her even greater affection from the Queen.
But our young princess was not going to remain by her mother's side for much longer.
Since 1860, her parents had been searching for a suitable prince to become her husband. What made this difficult was their insistence that Alice should consent to the marriage. The royal couple wanted their children to develop genuine romantic feelings for their spouses rather than simply marrying them off to some random royals, as had been the custom for centuries.
After some short-lived courtship prospects involving the eldest son of the Dutch King and a relative of Vicky's husband, another candidate was suggested: Prince Ludwig of Hesse-Darmstadt.
He was the nephew of Grand Duke Ludwig III of Hesse and by Rhine and of Empress Maria Alexandrovna of Russia. He was recommended as a suitable match by Vicky, who had personally visited Darmstadt to assess him.
Then, in 1860, Ludwig and his younger brother were invited to Windsor Castle to spend a few days with the royal family, providing the perfect opportunity for Ludwig and Alice to get to know each other.
Ludwig made a good impression on the Queen, and he got along well with Alice. Indeed, Alice made it clear that she was attracted to the Hessian prince.
And so, in April 1861, Alice and Ludwig became engaged, with the blessing of her parents.
However, before they could marry, Alice's father died, casting a shadow over the wedding as the royal family entered an extended period of mourning.
When Alice's wedding finally took place on 1 July 1862, her mother had to be shielded from the other guests to preserve her privacy during the ceremony.
This made the wedding seem, in the Queen's own words, "more like a funeral than a wedding."
Despite Alice's enthusiasm about getting married, she had to conceal her happiness. Once the ceremony was over, she changed out of her simple wedding dress and into a black mourning dress.
Now newlyweds, Alice and Ludwig arrived in Hesse in July of that year. When they reached Darmstadt, the people celebrated their arrival. Alice wrote to her mother that the warm reception had left her overjoyed. Despite this, maintaining her popularity among the Hessians would remain a challenge for our princess. For starters, the people opposed spending money on the construction of a new residence for the couple, as Queen Victoria had wished. Secondly, Alice experienced homesickness during her first months in the Grand Duchy, particularly because she remained concerned about her mother's mental state following Albert's death.
In 1863, she travelled to England for the wedding of her older brother, Bertie, to Princess Alexandra of Denmark. That same year, she gave birth to her first child, Victoria, at Windsor Castle. Afterwards, Alice returned to Darmstadt with her daughter and began making a greater effort to integrate herself into the Hessian court.
This period also saw a deterioration in Alice's relationship with her mother. Her infrequent visits to England frustrated the widowed Queen. Not only that, but Alice's apparent happiness in her marriage sometimes made Queen Victoria jealous, as it reminded her of her own married life with the now-deceased Albert.
The relationship between the two women would remain complicated for the rest of Alice's life, although they continued to share moments of genuine affection.
In 1864, at her and Ludwig's private residence in Kranichstein, Alice gave birth to another daughter, Elisabeth, nicknamed Ella by her family. Queen Victoria was appalled to learn that Alice had decided to breastfeed her daughter, as the Queen strongly disapproved of the practice among women of their social standing.
In 1866 came one of the most difficult periods of Alice's life, as war broke out between Austria and Prussia in the summer of that year. Since Hesse joined Austria's side, Alice found herself on the opposing side from Prussia, where her older sister was Crown Princess.
Despite this uncomfortable situation, Alice took on the responsibility of caring for wounded soldiers.
In doing so, she was inspired by her correspondent, the famous nursing reformer Florence Nightingale, whose work had revolutionised nursing during the Crimean War. Drawing on Nightingale's example, Alice began working to improve sanitation in military hospitals and was able to obtain support and funds from England.
In July, Prussian forces approached Darmstadt, leaving the city vulnerable to occupation. In the end, Grand Duke Ludwig III had little choice but to accept Prussia's victory. Fortunately, the Grand Duchy was spared complete annexation, partly because, if you remember, the Grand Duke's sister was married to the Emperor of Russia, and the Prussian court was unwilling to antagonise the Russians.
Unfortunately, however, the peace terms imposed upon Hesse were harsh, at least in Alice's view.
Prussia annexed some Hessian territory, including areas of strategic importance for transport and communications, while also forcing the small state to pay a substantial indemnity to Berlin.
But at least the war was over, and Alice was finally able to reunite with her husband, who had been serving at the front.
During the war, Alice had also given birth to another daughter, Irene. Four more children would follow: Ernst Ludwig in 1868, Friedrich in 1870, Alix in 1872, and Marie in 1874.
Following the conflict, Alice, now more confident in her abilities, continued to support humanitarian causes. For starters, she helped establish the nursing organisation that would lead to the creation of the Alice Hospital in Darmstadt, where patients could receive treatment using modern medical methods. The institution would continue operating into the present day.
Other organisations she supported, such as the Alice Society for Women's Training and Industry, were established to provide women with education and professional opportunities, allowing them to become more independent and economically productive members of society. As these organisations began to bear fruit, Alice became increasingly involved in their administration.
It is safe to say that Alice held views that would have been considered progressive, if not radical, at the time. For instance, she believed that women should be able to make decisions for themselves and that a woman's life should not revolve entirely around marriage and household responsibilities.
This stood in stark contrast to her mother, who held strongly anti-suffragist views.
Additionally, Alice was deeply sympathetic to the hardships faced by the lower classes. Whenever she could, she would travel incognito through the poorest areas of Darmstadt to observe the living and working conditions of ordinary people.
Around this time, Alice also developed a friendship with David Friedrich Strauss. He was a liberal theologian who had stirred considerable controversy during his lifetime thanks to his book The Life of Jesus Critically Examined. In it, Strauss argued that many of the miracles attributed to Jesus were myths and imaginative expressions of his teachings developed by his followers. As you can imagine, these arguments were fiercely criticised by many theologians of the time.
But Alice was sympathetic to some of his views and became increasingly interested in questioning conventional religious ideas. She also believed that certain values associated with Victorian society would have been unrecognisable to early Christians.
However, criticising contemporary social and religious standards would soon become the least of Alice's concerns.
In May 1873, her youngest son, Friedrich, affectionately called Frittie by his family, fell from a window while playing with his brother. The fall caused injuries that might not have been fatal to an otherwise healthy child.
But the problem was that Frittie suffered from haemophilia.
This disease prevents the blood from clotting properly, meaning that even relatively minor injuries can result in prolonged bleeding. In Frittie's case, the fall caused a fatal internal haemorrhage. The disease was also hereditary and appeared among several descendants of Queen Victoria, earning it the nickname "the Royal Disease."
Although Victoria and Alice did not suffer from haemophilia themselves, they were carriers of the condition, meaning that they could pass it on to their children.
And because of this, the two-year-old prince died a few hours after his fall, on 29 May 1873.
Alice was devastated by his death, and the tragedy brought her closer to her remaining children, especially Marie, who was born the following year.
On 20 March 1877, Ludwig's father died at the age of 67. Ludwig was already heir presumptive to the Grand Ducal throne, and the death of his father brought another loss to the family. Then, on 13 June, Grand Duke Ludwig III also died. This made Alice's husband the new Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine, reigning as Ludwig IV.
For Alice, however, becoming the new Grand Duchess gave her little reason to celebrate.
By this point, her marriage to Ludwig had cooled somewhat. Although she still loved her husband, Alice felt that he did not always meet her intellectual expectations. She considered him less intellectually curious than herself and believed that he struggled to express himself in the complex ways she desired.
For a woman who was intellectually curious and open-minded, Ludwig's personality sometimes left her longing for deeper conversation. She complained of his lack of "opinions, observations and remarks" and craved someone who could understand her on an equal intellectual footing. This helps explain why she valued friendships with people such as Strauss.
Besides her marital difficulties, Alice's popularity in Darmstadt remained unstable.
Some people criticised her refusal to conform to the expectations of court society, particularly her rejection of strict protocols and traditions that conflicted with her personal beliefs.
Eventually, these criticisms developed into rumours portraying her as petty and self-absorbed.
Alice soon began to feel increasingly depressed by the hostility directed towards her.
But Ludwig, surprisingly, managed to lift her spirits, telling her that "the bitterness of the salt water will drive away the bitterness that you still feel against Darmstadt."
Alice found his words touching and became increasingly appreciative of his emotional support.
Although he was not always the intellectual companion she desired, Ludwig was still someone who could brighten her day. Another moment of happiness came during Christmas 1877, when Alice spent the holidays with her husband and their surviving children.
But moments like these were soon to come to an abrupt end for our poor princess. In November 1878, the family was struck by a diphtheria epidemic.
Most members of the household became infected, with the exception of Ella, who had been sent away and was staying with her paternal grandmother.
On 16 November, the youngest child, Marie, died from the disease at the age of four. Alice initially kept her daughter's death a secret from her other children, hoping to spare them further distress while they were still recovering.
But her worries were far from over.
Because she had personally tended to her sick children rather than leaving their care entirely to the household staff, Alice had exposed herself to the disease. In early December, she began showing symptoms of diphtheria, and her condition rapidly deteriorated.
On 14 December 1878, exactly seventeen years after her father's death, the 35-year-old Grand Duchess Alice of Hesse and by Rhine passed away at the Neues Palais in Darmstadt.
She became the first of Queen Victoria's nine children to die. She was buried in the Grand Ducal Mausoleum at Rosenhöhe Park.
News of her death brought a wave of sadness throughout both Hesse and the United Kingdom.
Her relatives were equally heartbroken, with her brother Bertie reportedly exclaiming to his mother, "I wish I had died instead of her."
Even Queen Victoria, despite her occasionally tense relationship with her daughter, was devastated by her passing. She remarked that Alice's death on the same date as that of her late husband was "almost incredible and most mysterious."
As for Vicky, the sibling to whom Alice had been closest, it is safe to say that she did not take the news well. She even went so far as to write a 39-page letter to her mother expressing her profound sorrow.
These reactions demonstrate just how deeply Alice was loved by those who knew her. She truly was a woman whom her relatives were grateful to have as part of their family.
Speaking of her family, Alice's surviving children would go on to play important roles in European royal circles. Her eldest daughter, Victoria, would marry her cousin, Prince Ludwig of Battenberg. Their descendants would become part of the Mountbatten family, which included Alice's great-grandson, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, consort of Queen Elizabeth II.
Her youngest surviving daughter, Alix, would marry Tsar Nicholas II of Russia and become Empress Alexandra Feodorovna. Her fate, as you may know, was not a happy one. She and her family were murdered in the aftermath of the Russian Revolution, as was her older sister, Ella.
But their stories are for another time.