r/Frat • • 6d ago

Frat Stuff How can I bond with my pledge brothers?

Most of the pledge class brothers don't live in the frat house, what can I/we do to hangout and bond more?

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u/jomo789 5d ago

Circle jerk

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u/henare ex-ΘΧ 5d ago

bro jobs. /s

seriously, tho... hang with them. do things together (even outside the house). Just like you're getting to know the actives you are also getting to know your fellow pledges.

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u/theMEMEfather42069 Big Ten 6d ago

Do shit after chapter, ask a few brothers if they just wanna play dye, cornhole, spikeball, whatever if anyones free. Even if they dont live in house living in campus housing with a brother is usually a good move

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u/xSparkShark Beer 6d ago

Drink with them

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u/Professional_Lack706 Beer 5d ago

Get drunk and chop it up

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u/07eudaimonean ΔΦ 5d ago

Ideally your pledgemaster should be facilitating bonding events as part of NME: as my chapters PM, I try to get everyone together at least once a week to do something. But beyond that, just hit up your pledge-brothers to hangout casually, and get your pledge class president to organize bigger stuff.

I don't know why your pledge brothers would be living in the house anyway unless your chapter has a huge one, usually only brothers live in-house.

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u/TemporaryAttention27 5d ago

I think he meant after initiation but idk fs

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u/tarheel_204 1d ago

Basic answer: hang out and party at the house together

My pledge class did make a conscious effort to schedule one or two nights a month to all meet up (just us) for dinner somewhere and then we’d hang out after.