r/GirlDinnerDiaries • I ❀️ Other People's Business • 10h ago

BIG WIN πŸ₯³ I made it 🎊🎊

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Photo is cathead biscuits and gravy

I have no evidence of disease!!!! Having ovarian cancer has been the scariest experience of my life and I’m beyond thankful every day I pulled through. I have to continue testing routinely but fingers crossed everything stays on right path.

There has been so much that’s happened in such a short period. In March, I had pain in my side that was diagnosed as a UTI. No big deal. Then everything went downhill. The pain got worse and worse. The third doctor I saw discovered a giant tumor that stretched across my ovaries and most of my abdomen. It weighed 18 pounds on its own!!!

I started chemo almost immediately after my surgery. Things went south again, and I was in a coma for 11 days. I had to relearn how to talk after getting a trach. I spent almost a month at a rehab hospital building up my strength to walk again. And I’m so goddamn proud of myself.

I would never say I’m happy I had cancer. However, this experience has given me such an appreciation for everything. I still have things to figure out. I need to determine a career path. My medical bills are next-level insane. I physically can’t do some of the things I used to.

But I’m home, on the mend, cuddled up with my cats. And that’s what really matters <3

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u/Ingawolfie APPROVED✨ 10h ago

F cancer sideways up the *** with a cactus.

I’m currently battling leukemia. I didn’t go through an eight of what you did, but cancer is cancer and it’s evil.

I’m just glad you were diagnosed in time. The symptoms of ovarian cancer are so vague a lot of women get dismissed altogether or diagnosed too late.

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u/ariesinflavortown I ❀️ Other People's Business 8h ago

Sending you lots of good thoughts! I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this too :(

I am extremely thankful that we caught it in time. It was already in advanced stages, but still responsive to chemo and able to be mostly removed through surgery.

You’re 100% right about the symptoms. I brushed them off for a long time because they just seemed normal.

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u/Ingawolfie APPROVED✨ 4h ago

Thank you. I am currently in remission. I hope you are, too.

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u/Buffy_the_guppy πŸ₯ Herbivore πŸ«’ 10h ago

Congratulations πŸŽ‰ That is a big win after going through so much in a short time. Enjoy the kitty cuddles!

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u/SpazzJazz88 Foraging Bog Witch 10h ago

Yay!!! This internet stranger gives you hugs and much celebration of your hard efforts to fight this horrible disease. The disease has taken my grandmother and almost took my mother. It is a very horrible disease. I am giving you hugs and much love for kicking its ugly ass. πŸŽŠπŸŽ‰

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u/dbtl87 Longwinded πŸ˜™ Short Tempered 9h ago

You kicked ass, congratulations!!!

https://giphy.com/gifs/yoJC2PJ3FTkvyAI5TW

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u/hot_dog_nachos Femininom(nomnomnom)enon 8h ago

I'm glad you're on the other side, my grandma survived ovarian cancer and got another 26 years out of life. Cheers to getting back to enjoying life!

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u/daffers_doodles Kitchen Witch 10h ago

Damn right you should be proud of yourself, I'm proud of you even though I don't know you. From the surgery to chemo to rehab to recovering, none of these things are a small thing to go through. You've every right to be proud girl, enjoy those cuddles w your cat and wishing you the best with recovery πŸ’–

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u/JerryCherry7 naan of my business buuttt πŸ‘€ 7h ago

I work in the cancer field and I just wanna say that I am very proud of you. You dug deep and kept going. Don’t ever stop fighting each milestone is a win not matter how big or small. I’d suggest you speak to the social worker at your cancer hospital they can help you with some of the financial support

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u/Motivated_Sloth_749 πŸ§‚Salty By Nature 9h ago

Oh my god!!! An 18-pound tumor?!? Coma for 11 days?!? Girl, you’ve been through it!

Congratulations on getting through this ordeal and recovering and especially, no evidence of disease!!!

Best wishes for continued health!

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u/EntertainmentLazy871 Oversharer πŸ—£ 10h ago

So happy you are snuggled up with the kitties and disease free!!! Sending positivity your way!!!

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u/Ichgebibble Short Story Longℒ️ 8h ago

This is such great news that I got chills. I’m SO happy for you and your recovery!

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u/designer130 nom nom, nod nod 10h ago

Hell ya!!! So happy for you and getting back up!! Look how strong you are! πŸ’ͺπŸ™Œ

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u/Odd_Walrus7396 πŸ§„ Anti-Vampire Taskforce πŸ§„ 10h ago

Hooray! You are so strong and I’m so happy for youΒ 

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u/Competitive-Push-715 Cleavage Crumb Collector 9h ago

That’s awesome!!! I’m so happy for you

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u/kag11001 Chocoholic 8h ago

"Dancing with NED" is one of the best phrases in the English language. Congratulations, all the hugs, and may NED continue to be your dance partner for a long, long time. πŸ˜ŽπŸŽ‰β€οΈ

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u/Any-Low-9414 Resident Yapper 6h ago

As a fellow survivor (though of a much less grueling variety), congrats! You survived! You are here!

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u/haileyskydiamonds πŸ›The Very Hungry Bookworm πŸ“š 9h ago

πŸ””πŸ””πŸ””πŸ””πŸ””

Congratulations!πŸŽ‰

Also, those biscuits look so good!

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u/Smart_Act_1144 Sweet Tooth FairyπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ 5h ago

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u/Main_Mobile_8244 Kosher Keeping Queen 5h ago

I just came here to say I πŸ₯° your username!

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u/Naive_Satisfaction24 πŸ₯£ Cereal Killer 9h ago

yessss queen, keep kicking this disease ass!

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u/oh_okhelloanyway Feral Til Fed 9h ago

YOU ARE FUCKING AMAZING ❀️

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u/milan_87 πŸ©΅πŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈπŸ’™ 7h ago

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u/JustVisitingLifeform Dip Diva 4h ago

Congratulations!

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u/Cute_Combination_770 APPROVED✨ 4h ago

Sending so much love. πŸ’•

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u/Prestigious-Yellow7 🌢️ Spice Girl 🌢️ 4h ago

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u/nanniej Overthinker πŸ’­ 3h ago

Go woman go! πŸ’ͺ🏻

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u/HugeBlueberryuwu πŸ§„ Anti-Vampire Taskforce πŸ§„ 3h ago

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u/Mountain_Strain5507 Overthinker πŸ’­ 1h ago

Sending you a victory happy πŸ•Ί!

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u/persimmon9847 Cookie Monster πŸͺ 1h ago

You. Are. A. WARRIOR!!!

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u/FragileLikeGlass πŸ›The Very Hungry Bookworm πŸ“š 8h ago

I'm so incredibly happy for you that there's no evidence of the disease!!! I could just cry for you.❀️ I'm relearning to walk and use my body in rehab right now and you're giving me so much hope. I hope it's alright!πŸ˜†

And the appreciation thing is wild, isn't it?? I feel a little coocoo but it's there. I'll take whatever positivity I can muster.😝 Even if it's me gaslighting myself and I myself alone.

Your meal looks incredible too. Wow. So impressive!

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