Just a simple rant
I wanted to write this down for quiet some time, its kind of a rant, Ive noticed alot of the stuff especially in my generation , we tend to be super private with our lives when it comes to family, like for example if you are feeling distressed , you might not share it with your family, and if you have the courage to do so, they will certainly bash it off (not most of the parents) or say other experience the same stuff, rather than helping you overcome your issue, you stop feeling confident in your self, and most of the time I have noticed we often make those kind of jokes within family itself which degrades the target person down to ground, these kind of vile jokes also happen within circle of your friends but it is much easier to let go of it since they are kind of your strangers if you put it, After years of experiencing stuff like this if you bash out than suddenly you are the bad guy. Jokes can be good , only if they are not targeted towards someone, or even if they may be targeted they should be at least not hurtful to the targeted person , if you are the target in your family/friends , you may smile at them , for instance , you meet/greet someone , rather than just replying back normally , they make you remember of negative stuff you do, or bash out at you, there is a high chance you dont wanna be with them , no matter how close they are to you heart. We must think before we speak or do any kind of action , listening to others is extremely important, and if someone is visibly distressed over your jokes , you should stop making them, and also not every occasion is the best time to correct someone's mistake.