Hi everyone!
I (28M) booked my first solo-trip for Madrid to celebrate my birthday in January and, apart from a bit of anxiety, I feel overall excited to begin this little journey!
I felt I really need some time for myself, even though sometimes I'm hella scared to travel alone, but, nevertheless, I figured Madrid would be a safe place to visit and to have a nice birthday for myself.
As soon as I found this subreddit I thought to myself it was better to ask my questions here rather than to ask ChatGPT, hoping that I would recieve some thoughtful answers from locals instead of answers gathered from reviews one could find on the internet.
First of all, since I'll be in Madrid for my special day, I wanted to treat myself with a nice dinner. I'm talking about a dinner in those places where you usually dress up nicely, and the cousine is special and sophisticated. I know I'll feel alone because I won't have my friends with me, so I really want to feel special with some good spanish chef-made cooking in some michelin starred restaurant! Do you have any recomendations? So that I can already make a reservation and be ready once I'm there.
Secondly, since I'm interested in bespoke tailoring and, having already worked with some great neapolitan tailors, do you know any historical tailors' shops I could visit and maybe learn a thing or two? I would love to see how luxury handmade menswear is made and I wouldn't mind chatting with other tailors (and maybe find a new life in Madrid, but maybe this story is for another post ahah).
My birthday dinner and the tailors shops are my two most important matters but, if you have spare time to help me, I'll write some other things I'm interested about:
- I know Madrid is LGBTQIA+ friendly, but would it still be fun as a solo-traveler guy? I don't know if I'll feel brave enough to go clubbing and, as of now, I was thinking about sticking to bars. How is the nightlife in mid january? Is it still worth a shot?
- Speaking of gay things, I was thinking about going to a musical but maybe it's too soon to see January dates in theatres. Aside from the famous Lion King or Wicked, do you have any recomendations for good spanish musicals? I wanted to see a flamenco show too but online they all seem so cheap and tourist-y, and that is why I was leaning more towards a musical theatre show.
- Finally, do you know any niche perfume shops? I havent traveled a lot, but when I did, my go-to souvenir is a perfume from a brand born in the country I was visiting. I'm not talking about Carner Barcelona, I wanna know some niche, cool and exciting perfume brands that could make a nice and well deserved souvenir for my trip.
I feel like I wrote too much but, for whoever got here, thank you for your attention! I'm really looking forward to travelling alone for the first time and I hope to find the help (and maybe a bit of courage) with your answers.
(Hope my english is good enough for you to understand what I'm trying to say)