r/Malawi • u/Natural_Composer_847 • 3d ago

personal Pressure

Man married People with kids always get money. It Doesn't matter if it's small money or not

Why ? The answer is simple

Pressure. These motherfuckers can't afford to be lazy

They always do whatever it takes to get money

Am not saying you should get married and have kids thou 😂

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u/Lz_MW_Forever 3d ago edited 3d ago

Lies!!! If that was true, the widespread poverty wouldn't be a thing. Most poverty stricken people come from or are in a two parent household. Stop this foolishness and false hope. No wonder male suicide keeps rising due to the so-called pressure. Did you check that men who often unalive themselves are usually married?

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u/Natural_Composer_847 3d ago

😂😂I didn't say you should have kids thou.

Am just saying those with people to feed and responsibilities to take care of have no time to be lazy like the way you are.

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u/Lz_MW_Forever 3d ago

Lies again. Your logic is rigid. You are simplifying things a bit too much. You are essentially saying: "Married=Hardworking" and "Unmarried=Lazy".

Most of those people are simply surviving not living. And I am not lazy. Laziness and a hardworking spirit has nothing to do with marital status plenty of bums and lazy people are married. Matter of fact, the bums and lazy people breed the most. Maskini are a product of such..even most criminals come from households where the parents were most likely irresponsible or simplly raised by single mothers

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u/Natural_Composer_847 3d ago

Am not saying unmarried people are lazy. What am saying is married People can't afford to sit at home and do nothing. It's like they have no choice but to get tf out there and get something unlike those without responsibilities. Those who are not married can relate. Some times unmarried folks can sit at home and relax all day do none. They can even choose not to go after an opportunity cuz they dont have pressure like the way married ones do.

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u/Lz_MW_Forever 3d ago

You must be young. You are refuting your own points. You said married people can't afford to sit at home doing nothing when they have mouths to feed. How many married people do you know? There are masses of lazy unmarried people..I said hard work and laziness have nothing to do with your marital status. Based on your logic, your argument is entirely about marital status determines how lazy and proactive you are when it comes to chasing money. This thought process is what forces people to marry unprepared. In Malawi it's common to hear "Mulungu amadalitsa mukakwatila."

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u/Natural_Composer_847 3d ago

Chabwino kulandi ndi inuyo

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u/Lz_MW_Forever 3d ago

Muli ndi liuma chabe Inu. The reason they look like they are getting money is because they're desperate. They have commitments unlike the unmarried. That's not hard work but desperation

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u/Natural_Composer_847 2d ago

So they are desperate for money ?

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u/PixelatedReality06 3d ago

Your post and reply both sound Naive.

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u/Natural_Composer_847 3d ago

You just arrogant man

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u/Oracle_of_Mashu 3d ago

Oho, tanvanawo.

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u/_clutchgod11 2d ago

Brother are you married plus kids?

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u/Natural_Composer_847 2d ago

Hell no , fkthmkidz

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u/SixHyde 2d ago

Same 💯

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u/bentrinity 1d ago

inu muli gulu liti?