r/NoRules • • 13h ago

Literally just a random subreddit because everything else removes my post and idk why, but Ima just leave a random hot take/vent here. I think it's impossible for healthy adult women and men to find smaller bust sizes sexually attractive.

As a petite-ish person with a smaller bust (B cup), and ok hips/butt, I am utterly convinced that women with small chests are both sexually undesirable and one of the only undesirable body types, at that. You could be chubby, muscular, tall, short, etc but as long as you has average-above average sized tits, men would find you sexually desirable. ​on the inverse, small tits usually aren't sexually attractive or appealing at all, as you're basically missing the most sensual part.

Men and women refuse to call women with this feature 'sexy.' It's usually 'classy,' 'wholesome' 'modest,' 'athletic,' or even 'cute' if you're lucky, but never 'hot' or 'mature' or 'sensual.' This shows that while some people may be aesthetically attracted or like the way it fits in clothes, it will never be sexually appealing.

It's not popular in adult media whatsoever. If you look at porn, you will rarely ever find small chests. If you do, it's in gross fantasies like Teen category. I think they are seen more as domination fetishes or kiddie fetishes than anything mature or adult. I believe you need to have a fetish for small chests to find them sexually desirable for this reason. ​if you look at porn of small chests, you'll notice that most captions are something begging for attention or reassurance. This definitely leads me to believe that people who do wank their shit to this feature, as few as they may be, often do it out of a desire to be a savior or as some sort of want for power, not out of attraction to the body type itself.

Men and homosexual women claiming to like small breasts are usually performative or asked first. If you look at statistics, small chested women are often rated lowest across the board, yet you continue to see people claiming otherwise when asked by an insecure woman. I fully believe that this is because men/lesbians simply want a quick, desperate woman for a slim chance at dating or getting a lay, not because they're drawn to them specifically. Men will say, "all boobs are good boobs", for example, but they usually want to say, "I want anyone as long as it is ok with me." That's not desire, that's desperation. Further proving my point, a lot of these lesbians and men often feel deeply unsatisfied by their partner later down the line, watching porn of well-endowed women (another word proving my point about breast size being everything) once they get bored of first having a girlfriend.

That's basically just how I feel. I don't think my body will ever be seen as sensual or desirable to anyone. I don't want people to spout "everyone has a type!" nonsense because I haven't even seen anyone express genuine desire for whatever I have.

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u/Inquisitions-R-Us 12h ago

Girl, smaller busts are my absolute favorite. I'm sorry you haven't had experiences that make you feel attractive just based on that, but I promise you there are people that appreciate them, or simply don't have a preference. I do agree that it can be pretty fetishized, but I think it's kind of the same thing for bigger busts. Sure, there's a level of evolutionary favor towards bigger ones, but if someone goes around being like "God I love giant boobs, the bigger the better" that's fetishizing too.

I really want you to not judge yourself or your worth based on your boobs, because I promise you're judging harder than any reasonable people you'll ever encounter in real life. We're always our own worst critics.

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u/FictionalContext allah be back 🕶 12h ago

I feel you're looking for the wrong thing if you think sexual desirability is what makes a good partner.

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u/Hypragon 10h ago

I can tell by all of that you don't like boobs. Please leave boob liking to the profesionals.

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u/Extension_Moment_494 6h ago

flatties to the front plz!

my fav