r/NonBinary • u/Civil_Beach_2350 • 16h ago

Questioning/Coming Out am I nb?

AFAB, I'm 16 and been thinking about gender stuff a lot recently but idk if I'm wrong or not. Prolly not really related but I just found out my old roblox account had a nonbinary flag on the avatar I was like 11 at the time. Dunno if lil me was on to something or nah 💀
I kinda really envy ppl with mustaches and want muscles. Don't think I want to be a boy tho? Don't feel much of a connection to that idea if that makes any sense at all, I think I just want to look more masculine at least?? I also don't mind my chest much but I do wish it was less noticeable/flatter, idk if I'd want a completely flat chest or not tho. I've had thoughts about getting a binder but idk if I should haha esp if I'm wrong
Unsure if I feel entirely connected to the idea of being a girl/woman whatever.
uhhhhh help me out here guys. I can yap a bit more if more context is needed or if my blathering just now made absolutely zero sense

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u/CharredSilkieChicken 16h ago

To me this sounds like something under the demiboy/demigender label. See if that fits you,

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u/sqwiddo 15h ago

Don't worry, you dont have to find your answer now. Its certainly a possibility though! I'd suggest looking into what other nb people have described in their experiences to see if any particularly resonate. Theres a ton of youtubers out there like d'angelo Wallace that have explained what it feels like to them! At the end of the day, everyone's experiences are unique and theres no need to jump to big life decisions while youre still figuring it out.

I kinda suspected as a young teen but never really knew what /exactly/ i was. Still dont now but Ive gotten surgery and hrt to get closer to that feeling

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u/Civil_Beach_2350 15h ago

Ooh ty I'll check them out!