As someone less agitated... It does get a bit frustrating when people are so quick to label you as an Andrew Tate stan for having a nuanced opinion about anything related to men. It honestly just shuts down the conversation and is pretty counterproductive.
"Hey, it kinda sucks that men get their feelings invalidated when they try to be vulnerable" and then getting my feelings invalidated is something that has happened to me personally many times.
Same but trying to tell my story about why I’m uncomfortable with hugs due to sexual abuse I received growing up. It’s very telling when all I hear is “a pretty girl grabbed your junk you know you liked it” from every girl I mention it to.
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u/pheonixblade9 1d ago
As someone less agitated... It does get a bit frustrating when people are so quick to label you as an Andrew Tate stan for having a nuanced opinion about anything related to men. It honestly just shuts down the conversation and is pretty counterproductive.
"Hey, it kinda sucks that men get their feelings invalidated when they try to be vulnerable" and then getting my feelings invalidated is something that has happened to me personally many times.