r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • • 1d ago

Meme needing explanation Peter, why are these guys considered "incels"?

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u/pheonixblade9 1d ago

As someone less agitated... It does get a bit frustrating when people are so quick to label you as an Andrew Tate stan for having a nuanced opinion about anything related to men. It honestly just shuts down the conversation and is pretty counterproductive.

"Hey, it kinda sucks that men get their feelings invalidated when they try to be vulnerable" and then getting my feelings invalidated is something that has happened to me personally many times.

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u/OkVirus8545 1d ago

Same but trying to tell my story about why I’m uncomfortable with hugs due to sexual abuse I received growing up. It’s very telling when all I hear is “a pretty girl grabbed your junk you know you liked it” from every girl I mention it to.

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u/90kandi 1d ago

Wtf I don't know of any women who would say that, or at least not ones I would want to keep talking to

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u/Broad_Health7227 16h ago

I think women would be surprised by how women actually talk and treat men in private

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u/ThakoManic 1d ago

this 100% Heck you can just question things and automaticly be declared a Incel and alot of these ppl are legit feminist libs

not all of them are bad

I know some who are just fine decent peeps

but alot of them REALY do behave super toxic / Karen route