I'm a trans man and everytime I go to get my hair cut it's a whole ass ordeal basically begging the stylist to cut my hair short but they always have to push me towards feminine styles.
I remember once a salon asked me 7 times in a row if I was sure I wanted short hair, another kept thinking I wanted a bob, or will leave my hair way longer than I asked for. Like I would say cut 6 inches and they do 3.
I just want to be like everyone else where you ask for a haircut and get it, no constantly asking if I'm sure I'm okay with it as if I'm insane for wanting short hair. Most of the time I don't even tell these people I'm trans, as I don't want to cause issues, just show and describe the hair cut I want and get hella push back for it.