I’m not going to say there isn’t truth to what you’re saying but that doesn’t mean that many folks aren’t turned off by someone too polished, it does come across as fake. I’m reminded of Boris Johnson who purposely messed his hair up and intentionally came across as aloof
You say that, but many people don't like competency. Usually it's because they have some kind of insecurity related to not measuring up in some way.Â
If they're not emotionally aware enough and/or able to employ coping skills, they can't process it and so feel threatened. Even if the field the competent person is in has nothing to do with them. Like Clinton to a Midwest farmer.Â
I comprehended your comment. You said people can be turned off by someone too polished. I’m asserting that the particular mindset you’re talking about is also found in those who insult intelligence and mistrust education.
Sorry should have said it can come across as fake. Thanks for your comment. I don’t know if it is worth editing my comment or not at this point. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
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u/Due-Pressure-8070 1d ago
Women wil always be held to a different standard. Had it been a man. He would have gotten compliments