r/PoursTea • venom • 1d ago

Murdered By Words 🩸 Shots fired in Alaska

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u/Due-Pressure-8070 1d ago

Women wil always be held to a different standard. Had it been a man. He would have gotten compliments

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u/blahblah19999 1d ago

Hillary won the popular vote

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u/TheScrote1 1d ago

I’m not going to say there isn’t truth to what you’re saying but that doesn’t mean that many folks aren’t turned off by someone too polished, it does come across as fake. I’m reminded of Boris Johnson who purposely messed his hair up and intentionally came across as aloof

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u/Additional_Gene_211 1d ago

I hate when the people I elect to lead the government to be capable!

Fucking come on, what a bullshit thought

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u/Hangry-Feline2489 1d ago

You say that, but many people don't like competency. Usually it's because they have some kind of insecurity related to not measuring up in some way. 

If they're not emotionally aware enough and/or able to employ coping skills, they can't process it and so feel threatened. Even if the field the competent person is in has nothing to do with them. Like Clinton to a Midwest farmer. 

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u/SherbetAromatic7644 1d ago

You liked to make fun of the strait A students in school didn’t ya?

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u/TheScrote1 1d ago

No they were my classmates. I imagine with your lack of reading comprehension though you didn’t get that many A’s.

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u/SherbetAromatic7644 1d ago

I comprehended your comment. You said people can be turned off by someone too polished. I’m asserting that the particular mindset you’re talking about is also found in those who insult intelligence and mistrust education.

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u/TheScrote1 1d ago

Then why’d you act like my observation was my personal feelings?

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u/faldese 1d ago

From what you said:

many folks aren’t turned off by someone too polished

This is a general observation. But you followed up with:

it does come across as fake

This is a personal feeling.

No horse in this race between you two, just pointing out what you said.

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u/TheScrote1 1d ago

Sorry should have said it can come across as fake. Thanks for your comment. I don’t know if it is worth editing my comment or not at this point. Sorry for the misunderstanding.