r/PoursTea • 🫖 Mod ☕️ • 1d ago

⚠️Trigger Warning⚠️ Calls It

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u/Previous-Artist-9252 1d ago

Do you think that interacting with people professionally and interacting socially are the same thing?

Do you think that when acting professionally I might not need to follow professional guidelines and rules?

Or are you stupid? I do not confuse my social life and my professional life. When I am acting within my job, I follow professional guidelines and ethics. I am bound by them.

And when I am in my social sphere, I have no obligation to continue to engage with abusive individuals.

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u/crimsonpostgrad 1d ago

no? you actually are still allowed to say you don’t find rape jokes funny even when you’re at work, babe

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u/Previous-Artist-9252 1d ago

Where do you work where rape jokes don’t get reported to HR?

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u/crimsonpostgrad 1d ago

are you doing the reporting to HR? do you think they just get some automatic alert that a misogynist is perpetuating rape culture nearby? you are aware someone has to tell them right?

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u/Previous-Artist-9252 1d ago

… yes.

If a coworker is doing a sexual harassment, I report that to HR. That is pretty basic.

Do you not report sexual harassment?

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u/crimsonpostgrad 1d ago

so then why are you asking what you should do if you seemingly know what you should do?

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u/CuntyButCorrect 23h ago

Because he's an idiot who wants to do nothing but coddle his own ego? That's what I'm picking up. He asked what he could do. It was pointed out that there are things he could do, so now he's deflecting in an effort to not feel morally inferior. Very cishet-coded of him tbh. So is claiming the feminist label while simultaneously talking down to and victim-blaming a woman for having to interact with shitty men, and claiming that a man who speaks up must also be buddies with the people he sometimes has to call out.

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u/Previous-Artist-9252 6h ago

Very transphobia coded to call a queer trans man cis-het coded.

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u/crimsonpostgrad 23h ago

oh yeah 100% i was just wondering if he has the self awareness to realize it