Can someone answer this please?

[u/jsarandomkid]

So people always say the sex on porn is not what sex is like irl.

so can someone please explain? I don't understand at all how

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[u/Aranea101]

Porn is a lot cleaner. Everyone is freshly showered and have new makeup on.

It's also way longer and with way more positions than normally.

And rarely do people act like they do in porn. It's a fantasy.

And, porn completely omrids funny or embarrassing moments that occur in real sex.

The guys also don't have trouble maintaining an erection for 40 min. And the women is always wet. In reality women are not always wet enough, and men can have a mid point where there erection falls when on it for 40 min.

Tldr: the logistics of where things goes is correct in porn.... That's about all that is correct

[u/cwalt85 → u/Aranea101]

They never show the random mid-sex fart lol.

Or picking a stray pube from your teeth.

[u/shadowysea07 → u/Aranea101]

Porns usually shorter than real sex or at least edited to be. 

[u/Meta_Professor]

In exactly the same way that the WWE isn't how actual street fighting works.

[u/LeatherCorrect842]

Porn is scripted, multiple takes for one scene and a lot of the time, it’s faked

[u/PetrogradSwe]

In porn they show sex that looks hot, not sex that feels good.

In real sex it's good to ask your partner what feels good. Communication back and forth is good.

In porn they're often violent, sometimes so violent it could hurt.

[u/markfourf]

Also, the actors in porn, both men and women, have much better endowments than most people do. This can lead to ordinary people feeling inadequate.

[u/TheCookieMonster3546]

Porn is just as fake as Avengers. At least studio made. There are some keywords you can use to find real couple who uploaded but i will let you figure that out yourself. Real sex is very different. More tender, embarrassing, awkward and amazing!

[u/Sir-Gunner]

Porn is just like reality shows, action movies and action shows. Everything about it is fake.

[u/cwalt85]

Porn is theater. It’s all exaggerated and amped up to make it exciting. It’s also cleaner, it skips the messier parts of sex.

Now you can try to make sex like porn but it just ends up being awkward an embarrassing for all involved lol.

[u/Jhonny99j]

Real sex is about intimacy and caring and loving.

It can be a bit primal, however in most cases there are emotions involved.

In porn it is just techniques.

[u/Commercial_Tailor_40]

Ce que tu vois dans les films pornos est écrit à l'avance et scénarisé. Ce sont des acteurs. Mais ça ne veut pas dire que tout ce qu'il s'y passe n'arrive jamais dans la vraie vie. Mais il faut garder à l'esprit qu'ils sont acteurs et que c'est un scénario mis en scène.

[u/Sad-Buy-8842]

The people on porn are moving, responding and acting, in a way that is designed to 1) look good on camera and 2) turn people on.  In porn, they make it look like, as soon as someone starts touching someone else, its instant, intense pleasure; thats not how it works.  

They also make people's bodies look 'perfect': large breasts, large erections 'perfect and pretty' vaginas.  Our bodies are all different.  We all come in different shapes and sizes, and thats completely fine.  Breasts can be big, or small, same with penises, vaginas can be different shades, innies or duties, etcetera and, bodies, in gemeral, can be all shapes and sizes with different amounts of hair on them, and thats completely fine.

Then there's the scenarios.  Porn makes it look like you can walk up to a girl and do or say something that, in real life would be really creepy, or a girl will just walk up, randomly and offer herself to a guy, when, in real life, thats not going to happen.  I would say that porn is very much reaponaible for how much disrespect women get, from men amd why women are tteated as sexual objects.  

Is it wrong to watch porn?  No.  However, we need to remember, its just like any other movie or video; its purpose is to be visually stimulating, not realistic.  When you watch Fast and the Furious, you know that what theure doing, in theor cars, looks cool, but, in real life, it just doesn't work, that way., porn is the same.  It depicts something that could be real, in a way that is plausible, but not real life.

I hope that made sense...if any clarification is needed, let me know.  

[u/wmn8122]

Sex on porn follows a script. Real sex does not.

[u/Purple_Beholder]

Um the real deal is way shorter and "whole night long" is unreal, unless like many many tries and pauses to rest in between and by then people run out of libido or even desire to do it

[u/ApollosMuse33]

I hope this young person has found some valuable answers here. So many honest, truthful, and loving replies here. WONDERFUL! This trap is so easily set and fallen into, we all can rethink and relearn from these replies.

[u/psychowhitebread]

porn is like a movie, but people are having sex. everything is perfect, everything is scripted, and everything is made for and curated to be entertainment.

everyone is perfectly clean, the scene is ALWAYS setup to be someone's fantasy. it is as fake as WWE wrestling.

[u/Kind_Stop_3284]

In porn men can cum multiple times in once scene, of course they hide that from you and show you only one cum, that's why they last for half an hour ;)