r/Tinder • u/Lil_Nach0 • 7h ago
First time on dating for about 5 years. Any feedback really appreciated
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u/Pristine-Skirt117 7h ago
I would say you’re perfect except since all of your answers are jokes, it doesn’t feel fully genuine.
Like the non-negotiable question, I think you should answer earnestly. That’s a super quick chance to filter compatibility issues off rip.
You’re super funny though and I would 100% swipe right!
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u/Ill-Abies-3169 6h ago
Oh the opposite for me! I loved all the jokes and def would swipe right based on answers. I’ll be honest that the “non-negotiable” answer went over my head/ didn’t quite make sense how it was formatted perhaps
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u/Pristine-Skirt117 5h ago
I love the jokes too! I wasn’t criticizing them, just that -all- the answers were jokes is all 😅
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u/Technical-Method2129 6h ago
It’s not that deep…. They can get to know him irl
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u/Mazilulu 6h ago
It’s true. He’s interested in short term anyway
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u/mizzlol 6h ago
I’d let you ruin my life when I was younger 🤷🏼♀️ but based on looks alone. I agree that the answers need more of a mixture of serious and goofy.
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u/sugar-magnolia 6h ago
Exactly 😂 my younger self would have made allllll the bad decisions for this man
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u/MeringueLegitimate42 6h ago
Right? Hot but also nerdy, tattoos but pink pants, and cooks. Hell yeah.
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u/BibbleSnap 7h ago
I think the jokes that say nothing about you are not helpful. At least the Lord of the Rings one tells me you like fantasy movies and I could have a start a conversation on that. What does the Therapist line give me to work with?
Pics are good though. The pool one doesn't do you justice tho so I would switch it out. Solidly better than the average male profile though.
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u/MangoStrudel 6h ago
He went to therapy. That’s actually better insight then watches movies for 12h straight
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u/BibbleSnap 4h ago
Did he though? Because I wouldn’t assume that he did based on that joke since it is so unrealistic. But maybe thats just my bias
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u/Metallic_Sol 2h ago
maybe it's my area, but tons of guys use LOTR extended edition jokes so I would change that. feels super unoriginal.
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u/Ill-Abies-3169 6h ago
That he’s funny. One of the top things I look for in a guy, someone who can make me laugh
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u/Overall_Panic_5652 7h ago
I like your profile. It shows your personality and the pictures are good. I think you’ll get a decent number of matches!
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u/goblin_grovil_lives 7h ago
You aren't my type, but I'd roll the dice with humour like that. Plus wearing salmon in public shows confidence.
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u/Financial-Site3506 6h ago
Three things. I don’t particularly like the first picture. Doesn’t do much for you, so I’d change it out for a better one. Also, your second two answers (the nonnegotiable and the therapist) are not doing it for me. They don’t tell me anything about you. At the very least, change the nonnegotiable answer. That’s my advice!
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u/notgreat1228 6h ago
Make at least one of your answers actually sincere. Some jokey ones are great, but right now it’s coming off like you’re not taking the process seriously, etc. I also think your first photo should be the one of you with the dog.
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u/EcstaticNature96 6h ago
Uh where are we located bc you’re a 10/10 and I’d swipe so damn fast 😂☺️
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u/Gold_Amount295 7h ago
Pictures are pretty good.
The therapist line is cringe on many different levels.
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u/Wollers-eye 6h ago
You look like great fun, but your profile doesn't really say anything about you - I'd want to know a bit more about your interests and lifestyle to know if it's worth matching
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u/HopeSuper 6h ago
The prompts are hilarious, I could totally reply something funny. As someone else said, maybe maybe put some infos that could be a line opener on common hobbies. But I love this profile.
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u/ThrowRArainmakers 6h ago
im such a sucker for guys like this, but i know my red flags when i see em- sports investor
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u/Historical-Apple8440 6h ago
You look like you struggle with self worth from the pics and comedic lean you have
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u/Feetdownunder 6h ago
The 4th pic first
The 3rd pic second
The last pic third
The first pic 4th
Maybe remove the selfie or put it last
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u/mreowmix 6h ago
Is watching Rings of Power off the table because my Tinder says this: “We’re the same type of weird if…you watch everything Middle Earth related in chronological order (yes including Rings of Power😤)”
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u/Laxku 6h ago
I know it isn't perfect, but I honestly like RoP.
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u/mreowmix 6h ago
Right? I’m not a purist and I know it bothers some people quite a lot but I thought it was a really beautiful show
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u/Missedallthesigns 2h ago
Your pics are great and you seem like a fun guy. But you're trying a little too hard with all the jokey answers and they aren't telling me all that much about you. Good luck finding your girl.
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u/PreAmbleRambler 4h ago
Okay the beautiful eyes comment paired with the sunglasses pic got me. XD
OP my feedback is you're handsome af, but the first pic looks oddly older than the rest?
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u/Mushrooming247 6h ago
I think you were going to slay at this because you have a confident air, but you should give potential matches more information to work with to see if they would have fun with you and share your interests.
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u/Technical-Method2129 6h ago
You’ll do well on the apps…. Unless someone wants the delicious meal and won’t be mean to you
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u/Flayrah4Life 6h ago
I'd like to see something serious - a serious or thoughtful answer - but you are witty and based on the LOTR alone I'd message you.
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u/butters_bottom_bishh 4h ago
I feel like I am in the minority in thinking that I have no notes on written stuff - I would swipe right and message first SO fast. First pic and pic with the dog are great, I would swap the rest for pictures without sunglasses and same level of quality as the first pic.
Seriously, I see so little creativity when it comes to men’s bios, this is a breath of fresh air. Being playful and not taking yourself too seriously are such green flags for me.
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u/Only-Acanthaceae4790 4h ago
this is a weird one but i have that same shaggy dog sweater and have gotten very mixed comments from woman 😩
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u/WiltedEnthusiasm 4h ago
You’re funny and cute. I’d swipe for sure. I’d be looking for the messages to show me some depth or what you’re passionate about in terms of values and beliefs, or at the very least we would get into during the first date. But people’s values and beliefs, and politics, are incredibly important to me.
As an opener to get a convo started though? I think you’re good to go. Have fun!
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u/WyattHMB 3h ago
I think you’re in a good position to attract people who appreciate your sense of humor. I would have swiped right on this.
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u/AwakeningTheSpirit 2h ago
Random question for OP. In the photo that your facing the camera, it looks slightly like the flash reflected a red eye and the other looks white.
Have you seen an optometrist lately?
When both eyes don't reflect the same color, it could indicate health issues with one if your eyes. Especially if it is a common occurrence you notice in photos of yourself. If you don't typically notice that in photos it is probably nothing. But if you do notice that it is often the case then it might be worth getting a check up with your optometrist.
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u/Graysonsname 2h ago
I like the eyes one, light covert wat to mention having pretty eyes and going to therapy- both alluring
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u/Rich-Cellist8558 1h ago
You’re cute and funny, you’ll do fine. Echoing some other comments, maybe throw in a serious answer or two. But I think this is a great gauge of your personality with nice pictures.
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u/cyaneyed 1h ago
You’re beautiful and your profile is funny and well written. You’ll have a smart sexy partner in no time.
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u/effervescentcryptid 1h ago
The photo with the pink pants looks like you’re balding. If the other photos are representative of your current hairline and that one is just bad lighting, remove it and lead with peace signs or gray sweater. Or even better, take a (non-mirror) photo smiling with teeth and use that.
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u/HandheldHeartstrings 40m ago
Awful. I (F26) would delete this profile immediately. I will personally help you build a profile from scratch—maybe over a candlelit dinner and bottle of wine? Side note; how close are you to florida?
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u/NatesWife18 21m ago
I have no idea who you are. What are you passionate or sincere about? What could someone expect?
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u/IsopodIndependent553 6h ago
I think you are amazing! I love your humor. I would only suggest that you get a better haircut and clean up your style. But a lot of other women will think you look perfect.
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u/will2fight 5h ago
I’m not saying it’s bad, but your profile is super female-gaze coded. A lot of women that have gone for the female-gaze types have had some bad experiences with them. Just a heads up
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u/t_rexinated 1h ago
make your 2nd to last pic (with the cute pup) your primary pic, the smile makes a big difference
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u/revengeaura 6h ago
Here’s what I’ve got.
1. I’m looking for: Someone who’s ready to embark on a journey involving a ring. It’ll test our commitment, challenge our loyalty and take approximately 12 hours and 6 minutes. LOTR extended editions, of course.
Something that’s non-negotiable for me is: A little roleplay to keep things interesting. I’ll be a mischievous little rat with a passion for cooking, you be the intimidating head chef who catches me in the kitchen after hours. Plot twist: I’m actually making you a romantic dinner. Second plot twist: Feeding people is my love language, but you can choose dessert.
My therapist would say I: (I didn’t actually mind this one as a joke).
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