Tropes that became problematic

[u/KalzK]

The Persistent Suitor: A guy who is after the girl and just wont take no for an answer. Nowadays we just call stalking and harassment, but it used to be romantic. Example: The Notebook (2004), Noah asks Allie out while she's on a date with another man. She refuses, but he threatens to let go and fall unless she agrees to go out with him.

Comedic Woman On Man Violence: Mostly seen in anime, recently it has decreased a lot but years back every show had a woman hitting a guy and showed it as funny. Example: Toradora!, where the quintessential tsundere, Taiga, beats up the MC regularly.

Kid Bags Adult Baddie: I remember a few of these, sometimes it was to show how cool and awesome a kid was because an adult woman fell for him, now it's just seen as problematic shit. Example: Blank Check, the woman likes the kid and kisses him telling him to look for her in 10 years.

[u/Altayrmcneto]

It can be polemic, but “Women which are Mean, but Competent Bosses”, precisely the ones like Miranda Priestly, which was stronger last decade.

Why? Because they appear to be progressive, but it only reinforces the patriarchal structure by giving for some women key positions from where they can absorve most of the criticism while doing the same like men in her position.

The system is bad? No, the boss that is mean, but look how cool is to have such empowered woman as leadership!

[u/pinkypipe420 → u/Altayrmcneto]

Woman in charge? Lol, she must be a bitch.

[u/Altayrmcneto → u/pinkypipe420]

Honestly, no, is more like “look, this is what woman in charge should be like! You as a woman should see this as good thing, and either desire to either be like her or obbey quietly a man! In any of those cases, you should not question the patriarchy, only the individual personality of people, and mostly important, those woman!”

You can see it also because de debate goes to a path of “Women should be like this to survive in any patriarchal structure” instead of actually asking if women (and men also) should just be complacent amd accept a system in wich the toxic people are the ones with more advantage to have success.

[u/pinkypipe420 → u/Altayrmcneto]

Should I have added a /s?

[u/Altayrmcneto → u/pinkypipe420]

I’m struggling trying to translate by myself while training my english, the implicit “/s” passed over me 😅😅😅