r/TopCharacterTropes • • Sep 06 '26

miscellaneous Tropes that became problematic

The Persistent Suitor: A guy who is after the girl and just wont take no for an answer. Nowadays we just call stalking and harassment, but it used to be romantic. Example: The Notebook (2004), Noah asks Allie out while she's on a date with another man. She refuses, but he threatens to let go and fall unless she agrees to go out with him.

Comedic Woman On Man Violence: Mostly seen in anime, recently it has decreased a lot but years back every show had a woman hitting a guy and showed it as funny. Example: Toradora!, where the quintessential tsundere, Taiga, beats up the MC regularly.

Kid Bags Adult Baddie: I remember a few of these, sometimes it was to show how cool and awesome a kid was because an adult woman fell for him, now it's just seen as problematic shit. Example: Blank Check, the woman likes the kid and kisses him telling him to look for her in 10 years.

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u/Altayrmcneto Sep 06 '26 edited Sep 06 '26

It can be polemic, but “Women which are Mean, but Competent Bosses”, precisely the ones like Miranda Priestly, which was stronger last decade.

Why? Because they appear to be progressive, but it only reinforces the patriarchal structure by giving for some women key positions from where they can absorve most of the criticism while doing the same like men in her position.

The system is bad? No, the boss that is mean, but look how cool is to have such empowered woman as leadership!

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u/Swagalyst Sep 06 '26

I think it's part of Hollywood's belief that "strong woman" = "asshole". When they try to make a strong woman, they invariably make an egoistical asshole who treat everyone around her like shit. Case in point: Lara Croft in Tomb Raider.

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u/AreYouThereSagan Sep 06 '26

Tbf that's hardly exclusive to Hollywood. Society in general often tends to equate "strong" with "being an asshole who treats other people like shit."

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u/thefailtrain08 Sep 06 '26

Yeah, and men are just... kind allowed to with no pushback because it's "manly" to act that way, but if a woman does it, she's "bitchy" or whatever.