r/TryingForABaby • u/AutoModerator • Apr 04 '26

DAILY Wondering Weekend

That question you've been wanting to ask, but just didn't want to feel silly. Now's your chance! No question is too big or too small. This thread will be checked all weekend, so feel free to chime in on Saturday or Sunday!

4 Upvotes

84% Upvoted

86 comments sorted by

View all comments

1

u/hvadermitnavn 32 | Grad Apr 05 '26

There’s something I’ve been wondering about. I see that many people, both here and on TTC TikTok, test early for pregnancy - like 8-9-10 DPO. And I totally understand the desire to get a positive test, but why not wait until you can be more certain of the result? Why not wait until your period is actually late and (hopefully) avoid potential disappointment - and spending a lot of money on pregnancy tests?

Is there a reason for testing that early? Why do we do it? Someone please enlighten me 😄

I really hope this doesn’t come across the wrong way - I mean absolutely no harm with this question, it’s purely out of curiosity.

2

u/RevolutionaryHelp451 27 | TTC#1 | March 2026 | Endometriosis with endometriomas Apr 05 '26

I have a unique reason for starting at 10dpo. I want a homebirth and I’m terrified of not getting on the midwife waitlist in my area soon enough, and not getting a midwife, which means no homebirth. I ovulate on the later end already and they base it on LMP so I am screwed if I don’t find out and get on the list asap.

1

u/Cornelia_1211 30 | TTC #1 | Cycle 3 Apr 05 '26

I'm surprised to hear that a midwife uses LMP if you have charts that show actual O day

1

u/MyShipsNeverSail AGE 33| TTC#2 cycle 5| Sus PMOS/IR| 1CP Apr 06 '26

My OBGYN annoyingly went with LMP even though I had a dating scan and alllll the charting showing I ovulated at CD30 due to traveling for a wedding. They even went so far to say BBT wasn't always accurate.

Next time, I'm just going to give the adjusted date if I ovulate late again.

1

u/Cornelia_1211 30 | TTC #1 | Cycle 3 Apr 06 '26

Yeah that doesn't surprise me with an OBGYN, just with a midwife. I would have def lied and just said whatever date was 2 weeks before ovulation. That's so ridiculous of them, and I bet now they think your baby is measuring 2 weeks behind!

1

u/RevolutionaryHelp451 27 | TTC#1 | March 2026 | Endometriosis with endometriomas Apr 05 '26

It’s just the intake form that asks only for LMP. I’m sure if I got taken on as their client then they would opt for o day for due date purposes, but just for getting in with the LMP only I would be signing up a few days later than others with the same LMP. Where I plan to give birth there is a severe midwife shortage so I am pretty desperate to do anything I can to increase my chances!