I am struggling with the idea that due to unexpected (and pretty tragic) circumstances, I will be raising my daughter (6mo) alone. Photos are of her birth chart.

I want to try to understand her as best as I can in order to show up for her and love her the way her soul needs.

What can you tell me about her? How will she likely best feel loved and supported? Can you anticipate any areas where she will struggle? What ways are we likely to experience conflict?

As her mom, what aspects of myself should I be careful about or make sure I don’t leave unhealed? How can I be the best mom to her?

My (32F) big 3:
☀️Sagittarius
🌖Pisces
✨Cancer

Hear me out. Every year when the Sun moves into Scorpio, the same thing happens. People start dredging up old feelings, rereading messages from years ago, and wondering why they can't stop thinking about someone they swore they were over. And then Mercury goes retrograde in Scorpio too, and you can hear Mercury say,,,,,oh you thought you were done? cute.

I'm curious how everyone else's charts handle this stuff. I have Venus in the 8th and I feel it every single year. Intensity, obsession, a deep need to know what's actually going on beneath the surface. It's a lot to carry around.

So tell me: what's your Venus sign and house, and how does Scorpio season usually hit you? Do you go quiet and brood, text the ex, or reinvent your entire personality? I want to see how this plays out across charts.

I'll read through the comments and answer anyone who wants to know what their placement might be doing this month.

October 18 is a Balance Day in the traditional Chinese calendar. The emphasis is on keeping things steady and moving at your own pace. Clearing out old belongings and taking care of practical maintenance fit the day well, including repairs to walls or roads. Here is today’s forecast for each zodiac sign.

Western zodiac

• Aries: Take the initiative in conversations. Say what you mean rather than keeping it all inside.
• Taurus: Finish an existing project before rushing into a new plan.
• Gemini: Socializing may go well, and a conversation could bring fresh inspiration.
• Cancer: Some time alone may help you recharge. It is fine to turn down an invitation you do not want to accept.
• Leo: The day may feel calm and comfortable, with some encouraging feedback along the way.
• Virgo: A good day to organize, plan, and sort through things that have become messy.
• Libra: Something you have been going back and forth on may be ready for a decision.
• Scorpio: Focus on getting your own work done. Avoid meeting someone else’s stubbornness with more of your own.
• Sagittarius: Get out for a walk or spend time somewhere different. A change of surroundings may help you relax.
• Capricorn: Your concentration may be stronger, making this a useful day for a demanding task.
• Aquarius: Ideas may come more freely. Put some of that curiosity into learning something new.
• Pisces: The day looks relatively steady, though you may feel a little tired.

Chinese zodiac

• Rat: One of today’s more supported signs. Communication may flow more easily, making it a good time to coordinate with others.
• Ox: A steady approach works best. Finish work that has been left hanging.
• Tiger: Helpful people may be easier to connect with. A good day to expand your network.
• Rabbit: You may get caught in overthinking and wear yourself out mentally.
• Dragon: Take a little more care today. Avoid sitting for too long and get up to move around.
• Snake: One of today’s more supported signs. Things may feel relatively easy to manage, though it is worth watching emotional highs and lows.
• Horse: Take a little more care today. A busy mix of tasks may leave you tired, so keep your expectations steady and make time for breaks.
• Goat: Keep a low profile and postpone major matters where possible.
• Monkey: Social connections look supportive. Reach out to friends.
• Rooster: One of today’s more supported signs. A clearer head may help you work through a difficult problem.
• Dog: You may receive invitations or find people especially friendly. Protect your sleep and avoid stretching your energy too far.
• Pig: Plans may change at short notice, so leave some buffer time. You may also feel physically tired. Avoid overdoing it.

Best times

• 19:00 to 23:00: Today’s favorable window.

Directions

• Northeast: Associated with money matters in today’s reading.
• Southwest: Associated with asking for help, talking things through, and seeking a smoother, more settled day.
• East: The direction to avoid when traveling, where practical.

Colors

• White and silver
• Yellow and coffee brown

If any of this connects with your day, come back and tell me what actually happened.

AI disclosure: English isn’t my first language, so I used AI to translate and help edit the English.

To iterate, I know not all Pisces are dishonest. Please don’t come for me, friends. 🐟 🐟 But for those who HAVE experienced a deceitful Pisces, drop your war stories below.

(Just had one put me (♐️) through the absolute ringer and I’m currently in hell, trying to untangle the truth from the lies. 🤡)

Venus in the 12th house stands up. Are you guys in relationships, or is everyone single in a dark hole with no way out?

Saw some other people doing this and it looked like fun. We're both Pisces suns and Pisces Venus. I feel like there's a lot of tenderness and implicit understanding between us, and I don't think I've ever loved anyone as deeply as him. Sometimes I wonder if we are soulmates, but I'm curious about what our charts suggest.

My chart is in the first slide, his is in the second.

New to astrology, and I finally figured out what my chart is (Scorpio sun, Sagittarius moon, Capricorn rising). Curious what everyone thinks my personality would be/what this says about me!

Does it matter to you what the other person has as their Moon and rising when you find out their Sun sign?

is mars in the 4th house is that bad! I have my mars in 4th house in leo. no matter how much happy I'm in the outside of my family, my life is hell in inside the house. I just don’t know why everytime this happens to me. I am a very fun loving person, I have no difficulties in life, life goes smooth. but. but, my relation with my parentssssss.... oh my god. I just can't. I don’t find peace at home. this is horrible.

Sorry if this isn’t allowed, this art was just too incredible not to share.

at some point i do feel like its true

I feel like 7H doesn’t get talked about that much, so I’m curious.
I have Sag sun, Sag venus, and Cap mercury all in my 7H. I even have Capr Chiron there too 😵

Human relationships have honestly been my biggest struggle in life. When I was younger, I went through phases where I genuinely hated ppl. My personality and the way I think are also pretty different from those of ppl my age in my country, so dealing with all the clashes and conflicts was exhausting.
I’m doing much better now and I’m happy being myself, but my friendships were honestly a nightmare when I was younger. Things got so bad that I even had some pretty dark thoughts back then.

It’s the same when it comes to dating! Maybe it’s bc I have such specific standards haha but even meeting someone I’m interested in isn’t easy. My Scorpio partner is the first person who’s ever made me feel truly secure in a relationship 😭
And having Cap chiron in 7H on top of everything feels so unfair haha. I’ve literally wished I could move Chiron to a different house before.

Anyway, how has it been for the rest of you with 7th house stelliums?

Curious if a mom’s or child’s chart indicates anywhere about having only children OR a child themselves being the only child. What houses and aspects can I look at?

Are there any placements that indicate only children or more likely to be?

Leo sun. Cancer moon. Pisces rising

I’ve only had one boyfriend and he was a Taurus Venus but he was insufferable with the amount of physical affection he needed. I’m a Scorpio Venus woman and I LOVE physical touch and sex but I also need the other stuff too like laughing and bonding and touch in a non-sexual way and he would get annoyed if I wasn’t constantly wanting to rip off his clothes at any second. he also wouldnt initiate or be sweet or romantic if I wasn’t actively trying to have sex. And last weekend I went on a first date with a Taurus Venus guy and it went well, we had fun and talked a lot and I felt really good and excited to go out with him again and get to know him but then he texted me and said he thought I wasn’t interested in him because there was no physical touch or anything like that and I was really annoyed because, we are literally strangers on a first date what do you expect me to do?

I thought a Taurus Venus would be a good match for my Scorpio Venus but they seem to have unrealistically high expectations of love and romance in my experience

I met him on dating app. We met once and plan to meet again. There was strong invisible chemistry but we both were guarded. This man seems too closed off for a Virgo. I'm Pisces

I noticed he needs to be sure about me before taking things fruther with me. Usually I met more assertive men.
And quess what? I told him I sensed that he has some hestitation and that we don't need to continue if he doesn't feel it.

This was his replay:

"I just don't have much info about you and it makes you a bit suspicious for me. So if you will tell me more about yourself, I will feel calmer about that 🙂"

I told some stuff about me, he thanked me and we plan to meet again. I accepted because he really appear kind and respectfull.

But do tell me if you can quess why he is suspicious and need to feel calmer!? Is it his Mars in Cancer ?
How should I approach him fruther ?

I am the first image and he is the second.

Unfortunately I am not sure what time he was born at so I don't know if that will fully affect the results.

Been together for about 8 months and I'm always asking him if he likes me. he's in his 30s so I would assume he would pick someone to settle or some sort.

he's super perfect on paper and has a very stable family. I have cut off my family years ago apart from my 28yroldolder brother.