r/askanything • u/nerorn22 • 9h ago

General Question I want honesty plz ?

These times I’ve been in depression i have occipital neuralgia for about two years or more and it started with hair shedding at about 17 or 16 and dermatologist diagnosed me with aga even though I mentioned it started together and that minoxidil spray for about nine months didn’t do anything so she just prescribed pills instead of spray and I just can’t take it anymore already ugly and 5’7 now hair my only wish was to find a girl that would genuinely love me and be affectionate towards but now to be honest i don’t think any normal girl would accept someone like this and even doctors don’t listen to me i just feel lost I want to of.f myself but I can’t and idk what to do now in conclusion is there any hope to get married i want honesty i don’t want to fool myself

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u/HeavenSent2024 8h ago

Plenty of ugly guys get married. Heck, some girls just have some odd attractions outside the norm. Not saying it’ll be easy, but it isn’t hopeless.

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u/nerorn22 8h ago

I don’t know at this point i just wanted a girl who would love me genuinely and be affectionate towards me and that I could make happy i know it might seem weird

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u/HeavenSent2024 8h ago

It doesn’t just happen, you have to put in effort to find someone. You’ll get rejected and have to remain confident in yourself through that. Be capable and nice and don’t be a mope.

I’m short and once went on a date and the girl said something about my height right away. It’s a great filter for people with bad attitudes and is an asset for finding someone genuine if you approach it right.