r/comics • • Jul 28 '26

OC This could be us, but

I don’t need much. I want eat sweets without getting fat, I want to feel wanted and I want equal rights. Is it much to ask?

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u/Rum_N_Napalm Jul 28 '26

The art in the first one is particularly good.

Also bruh, who doesn’t like pleasing a woman. The.. ahem… feedback from a good job are the best part of doing it.

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u/ASUSTUDENT9875345 Jul 29 '26

Okay honestly this is a fear of mine. I'm 22 and have never had sex in any way. I for sure want to, I'm a feminist, I'm very liberal, and I really care about being a good partner. When I've had partners before I for sure really cared about making them feel good when we kissed and stuff. But, I have OCD and I feel like I'm probably going to be really grossed out by the idea of putting my mouth in contact with someone's genitalia. Is there like a good way people deal with that?

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u/fuckgoldsendbitcoin Jul 29 '26 edited Jul 29 '26

The human brain has evolved to shut off those "gross" feelings about certain things when we are aroused. Things like bodily fluid exchanges, hair, smells, etc. that would normally be gross to think about. When not aroused our brain tells us to avoid those things for our protection but we wouldn't be able to procreate if we couldn't block it out when we have the chance to pass on our genes. My advice to you would be get yourself into a state of arousal with some foreplay first and then you will probably be just fine after that. The moment you finish though those feelings can come back quick so be aware of that. But of course if you have a good relationship then let her know about this ahead of time and if she's right for you then she'll understand and work with you to figure something out.