r/comics • • Aug 28 '26

OC Gender Ew-Phoria [OC]

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u/JakeJascob Aug 28 '26

Same with the american south

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u/ExtraNoodles Aug 28 '26

Came here to say the same thing. I loved being a transplant living in Nola. All the old ladies were so nice to my friends and I.

Like we've got sweet grandmas up in New England, but I haven't been called "sugar" by anyone since I moved home.

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u/ianswer-rhetoricalqs Aug 28 '26

If someone you dont know in New England calls you "Sugar," call the cops, like right then.

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u/Squirrel698 Aug 28 '26

Oh? Why is that

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u/LunaTunaMaca Aug 28 '26

I assume because it would be hella creepy! I'm in the Boston area. We call each other "kid". Hey kid!

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u/Regular_Custard_4483 Aug 28 '26

Nobody says stuff like that to strangers up here. It's just not our way. We're still friendly, just not like that. 

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u/Aromatic-Pass4384 Aug 28 '26

I don't know about friendly lol

Been living near Boston for a couple years now and on western mass a year before that and everyone seems pretty cold

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u/Regular_Custard_4483 Aug 28 '26

Depends on where you're from, I guess. I've lived in New England for about 35 years, but I've been a lot of places. All the US states, a bunch of different countries.

New Englanders seem cold, but that's just the way people are up here. It's always been that way. We're so close together, minding your own business is really the only way to get along. 

However, I've had a bunch of flat tires in New England, and somebody always stops to try and help. I've pushed a lot of cars out of snowy ditches myself. 

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u/w8_wuht Aug 28 '26

I was just thinking this 🤣 ever been to Philly? Friendly is NOT necessarily the term I'd use.

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u/I_like_flowers_ Aug 28 '26

its a different friendly.   my car got stuck once in philly late at night and people stopped, got out, helped me push it, made sure i was safe, and left.  hardly spoke a word.  

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u/w8_wuht Aug 28 '26

Yeah you have a point actually. I misinterpret "brash" and ball busting as unfriendly often. Nuances in communication alude the ever living fuck outta me.