Same as guys when you hold a door open for them. Twice I’ve had men put their hands on me to “guide” me through a door I was holding open for them because I was in a better position for it.
It’s so frustrating when men decide to do a “chivalry” that’s just “I will be polite by ignoring what you say and doing something you don’t want.”
Yeah, those guys dont understand. You need to rush to the door to be first. Otherwise you can't tell to your buddy that ladies go first.... Was never raced to the doors by other woman, so im not sure what you can tell them, hmmm. (And yes, we are almost 30 and childish, wcyd)
But if somebody is holding the door already, You fucking thank him.
I actually had to look up and see you're right about the comic, but i think the point of the comic was more it doesn't make sense for that action to occur. The reason she is lifting the weight... is to lift it. So, he takes it so she doesn't have to lift it....so she can lift it?
In the comment you're responding to, a woman shouldn't have to say "don't put your hands on my body to guide me through the door before you." The commenter did say, "by ignoring what you say" but I assume they are implying things that commonly might be said.
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u/ThatInAHat 6d ago
Same as guys when you hold a door open for them. Twice I’ve had men put their hands on me to “guide” me through a door I was holding open for them because I was in a better position for it.
It’s so frustrating when men decide to do a “chivalry” that’s just “I will be polite by ignoring what you say and doing something you don’t want.”