As a lady with back problems, this grinds my gears. Wait for me to confirm or deny if i need help. Most of the time I DONT and youre just bothering me. If i do need help, i would have asked for it. If for whatever reason ive already lifted and started moving with the item, and realize i need help, I'll need to put it back down and readjust/recenter with help.
But when you come up and just take heavy shit out of my hand, youre messing with my balance and messing with my back. This shit irks me to no end.
Completely sane response. This is exactly why I would never think to do this to someone, regardless of how hot or charming they were. It's just a poorly thought out gesture that can go wrong and/or offend so easily.
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u/08milk 6d ago
As a lady with back problems, this grinds my gears. Wait for me to confirm or deny if i need help. Most of the time I DONT and youre just bothering me. If i do need help, i would have asked for it. If for whatever reason ive already lifted and started moving with the item, and realize i need help, I'll need to put it back down and readjust/recenter with help.
But when you come up and just take heavy shit out of my hand, youre messing with my balance and messing with my back. This shit irks me to no end.