r/dashcams • • 8h ago

Wife got into an accident

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u/AskingFooAFriend 8h ago

She had a whole year to slow down.

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u/YOGZULA 3h ago

Literally 4 seconds. It was only obvious that this idiot was going to keep pulling out 4 seconds before the collision. If you're staring at the road, sure, that feels like plenty of time to brake. But god forbid you glance to your left, or right, look at a halloween decoration on someone's lawn for 2 seconds. This happens all the time, we all do it, let's not pretend like we don't. Then you glance back and there' a car that's pulled out in front of you and by the time you slam on your brakes you hit it.

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u/AdCurious7831 2h ago

Agreed... these comments are really confusing to me. Obviously, when you're driving, you're not fully prepared for someone to pull out in front of you at the wrong time. Driver slammed their breaks as soon as they processed the situation, which doesnt happen instantly when you're not expecting it.

Also, it was genuinely more like two seconds.

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u/juniperleafes 1h ago

It's called defensive driving and you should always expect it.

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u/jo734030 4m ago

More interested in what OPs wife was really thinking at the time. This seems avoidable all told

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u/idislikemostofyu 10m ago

Obviously, when you're driving, you're not fully prepared for someone to pull out in front of you at the wrong time

That's fucking crazy to read. Bro, I prep every time I see a car looking to merge. And that prep changes... in this instance I would've sped up to close the gap way before the intersection after seeing dude waiting there and seeing the traffic in front of me hit the intersection.

Like, even just watching the wave is enough to tell me to watch out for intersections. You notice how he was the car pulled out the furthest? Read that shit.

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u/acrobat2126 1h ago

wtf are you talking about?!

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u/YOGZULA 58m ago

you are welcome to try reading it again, use your finger to underline each word as you go

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u/Bak0ffWarchild_srsly 1h ago

Literally 4 seconds. 

All of your likes MUST have been people who stopped reading after this.😂

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u/YOGZULA 57m ago

nah probably just people with common sense

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u/idislikemostofyu 18m ago

That's a long ass fucking time. People judge pitches and decide whether and where to swing their bat in tens of milliseconds.

If this were a video game, a 4000 latency would be utterly game breaking. It's glacially slow in terms of reaction times.

Besides, how is, "they were distracted!" such a normalized excuse now?

Fine, let's normalize incompetence but let's at least give them SOME responsibility. I get there are a bunch of pretty colors to look at but maybe don't distract yourself right before an intersection where the car already in it is already over the crosswalk and has had to wait for multiple cars... he's gonna get impatient.

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u/RonBurgundysErection 54m ago

I had a whole year to wait until the accident happened in the video.

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u/appa-ate-momo 7h ago

Not a word about the driver who pulled out into traffic?

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u/Arborsage 7h ago

Water is wet

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u/_Luke_the_Lucky_ 6h ago edited 3h ago

Water isn't wet though... Edit: people who have downvoted this are as stupid as the guy commenting below

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u/Abject2556 6h ago

It is though... By every definition

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u/_Luke_the_Lucky_ 4h ago

No, by scientific definition water makes stuff wet but it isn't wet itself

Or do you not believe in science?

''Scientifically speaking, water itself is not considered “wet.” Wetness describes the condition where a liquid adheres to and spreads over a solid surface. Water causes wetness, but it is not classified as wet in isolation''

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u/zzazzzz 3h ago

logical fallacy, ice is water. ice is solid. throw liquid water on ice, ice is wet. ice is water water is wet.

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u/Even-Day-3764 2h ago

No. Water isn't wet. It makes things wet, but it itself isn't wet.

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u/Arborsage 6h ago

Redditor is smug

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u/_Luke_the_Lucky_ 4h ago

Redditor is wrong

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u/BigDaddySteve999 7h ago

They should not have done that, but if there was at least one competent driver involved, no cars would have been damaged.

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u/appa-ate-momo 7h ago

You’re not wrong.

I’m just tired of idiots being held to a lower standard than the people who are subjected to the situations they create.

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u/MrMattatee 7h ago

There's nothing interesting to say about the other driver. These videos are modern day parables, teaching us what to be ready for and how to survive idiots. Not pointing fingers to shame anyone, but to highlight what excellent driving looks like and how it could impact the outcome.

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u/spilly_talent 5h ago

I mean the reality is you don’t want to be dead right. This collision is the fault of the other driver. At the same time, I still don’t want to get in any collisions at all and I will drive accordingly.

OP’s wife was not at fault but she is still extremely inconvenienced. I myself will do all I can to avoid these things even if the other guy is at fault.

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u/appa-ate-momo 5h ago

I’ll also do everything I can do avoid collisions.

What I won’t do is the driving equivalent of “but what was she wearing?”

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u/spilly_talent 4h ago

Who is doing that though?

The OP’s wife has a very slow reaction time. That doesn’t make her at fault. It’s just a factor in this collision.

It is okay to acknowledge risky situations and avoid them. That doesn’t make it your fault that it happened, but when you have a video like this you can see how to make adjustments so that you are less likely to be in a bad situation.

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u/appa-ate-momo 4h ago

You're right that it's a factor, but when it's the only factor someone addresses, they're de facto placing the blame on her for the situation. I get that they might not intend to do that, but that's what their words are saying.

If person A assaults person B, and the only thing person C wants to talk about is how person B's reaction to getting attacked was suboptimal, they're blaming person B.

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u/waroftheworlds2008 3h ago

The driving equivalent of "what was she wearing" is "they were on a motorcycle".

Unless you're talking the Last Chance doctrine. Which i swear defends illegal and stupid maneuvers.

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u/appa-ate-momo 3h ago

That’s precisely what I’m talking about. We’ve created a system of liability that effectively encourages boldly bad driving because everyone else knows they’ll be held liable if the idiot hits them, and so goes out of their way to let them do it.

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u/Perfect_Librarian873 7h ago

They are wrong tho. She had less than 2 seconds to see, process, and react, and she reacted. People are just delusional and egotistical

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u/Chazus 7h ago

Not really, no.

Someone did something stupid. We get that.

But for some reason, the person who -saw- what was going on, was doing nothing stupid, took no action to prevent it.

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u/OperationNo3651 7h ago

Hard not to avoid when it was less than 2 seconds between the time the minivan actually went into traffic and the accident. Some accidents are unavoidable.

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u/SneakyMkGee 6h ago

I've been in a collision just like this. It's true that it's unavoidable if you're only looking at the body of the cars. After getting in that collision, I now watch the wheels of stopped cars. That gives you the few extra seconds you need to avoid a crash if people are doing stupid shit like this.

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u/Empty_Kay 5h ago

 Bingo on the wheels.  That's what I focus on when I'm riding my bike, and it has saved my bacon more than a few times.  It works really well for predicting the right hook.

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u/OperationNo3651 6h ago

Still isn’t guaranteed to help you.

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u/SneakyMkGee 6h ago

Totally agreed, just throwing out my 2 cents because it was an unpleasant lesson that came at a cost.

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u/OSS-Corpo-Shit 5h ago

In what world is this two seconds? There’s over double that to know this shit needed reaction and like 10 seconds of “I should make sure that dude doesn’t try to squeak the gap”. 

You don’t actually drive thinking “if there isn’t something directly obstructing my path, we are good” do you? If so, please self report and chop your license up. 

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u/Chazus 3h ago

Saw the car from 20-25. Car moves at 25, should have started braking there regardless of what they were doing. Impact at the back end at 28.

Three seconds is a HUGE amount of time to sit there and watch a car drive across nearly three lanes.

Literally breathing on the brake anywhere in there earlier would have prevented it.

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u/Right_Buffalo7566 7h ago

Look where I live a court would rule this accident for a 60-40% responsibility 60% would be the driver crossing the road. If you ask why because in our traffic rules there is a paragraph which states that you have to do everything to avoid an accident. Clearly she could have break earlier or change lane.