Don't know the trend.

So I've been scared of going outside with my skirt for a while now, because I'm too scared of judgement from random people that won't ever get to meet me. The thing that changed my mind was that I get confused as a woman all the time at work (I work as a cashier). If so many people think I'm a woman, why would people that won't hear my voice think weird of me when I wear a skirt, you know? So I told my friend that I am comfortable enough, and because it looks weird to wear a skirt over regular pants (it's like 10°C rn), she gave me her leggings. So today I went on a 20 minute walk from her dorm to my dorm, and it felt AMAZING

Hi friends,

I love having shaved legs but it is time consuming and generally has been coming in ingrown despite my best efforts. I use a clean and fresh razor, shaving cream, and go slow and in patches. Yet my legs always look reddish and my thighs especially have large patchy and pore heavy spots.

I'm at a crossroads. I'm ready to begin investing in better techniques, but I'm not sure what the best idea is. I've heard epilation can hurt but overtime work better, and IPL can be effective but mixed. What's the best long term strategy?

So, I am a random bystander, I haven’t gone deep into the community, but from what Ive perceived, femboys treat it as a whole new identity, have come-outs, sometimes transition and whatever other things. Essentially they are getting dangerously close to the border where a style turns into just straight up wanting to be a woman, they might’ve even crossed it. When I look at tomboys, they are just women who decided to wear something a bit more masculine, they don’t come out to anyone, they don’t wanna look like men. So my question is, why is it so much more of an identity for femboys?

Haii sweet people!!! ^ ^

I know this post doesn't really fit into this community, but I just had to tell someone. I finally beat Elden Ring!!! :3:3:3:3 Im sooo proud of myself that I made it!! ^ ^

Okayy, thats all hehe, baiii🥰

A couple weeks ago, I made a post talking about how I had my first boy crush. I’m pansexual and has never had a boy crush until then and it hit me like a truck.

Anyway. We were just conversation on instagram and the topic of crushes came up. He told me things and I told him things about past crushes and what not. Then he mentioned what me and him did at this party we were at.

For context, me and him were at a birthday party (it was his sisters birthday party) and by the end of it, I had been sitting on the couch on top of him basically and squeezing his head with my thighs, he did the same thing, and he sat on my lap for a bit until I had to leave.

Anyway. He mentioned that and was like “I don’t wanna accidentally friend zone you.” So I told him my true feelings and he reciprocated. Turns out we both had feelings for each other a year ago but I didn’t pursue it bc I wasn’t pansexual at the time and was questioning my sexuality.

We’ve been dating for a couple days now and I’m loving it. We’ve set boundaries first thing and I think it’s going great. We even sent thigh pictures to each other (as femboys do). He’s also a femboy so that makes it a billion times better.

I did it🥹✌🏾

Looking for fem friends to help me dress fem and to go out with

I have been out of the game for so long and how it was done back 10 years ago is not the same of today and now that i've transitioned, I don't know if my old masc ways of flirting is appropriate (for lack of a better term)

Even though I've transitioned I still find attraction to femininity so it's still majority female (occasional femboy but haven't fallen inlove with one yet) So I need outside perspective on how to view this kind of situation.

I've also considered just playing it dumb and just pretend everyone I will talk to already friendzoned me or something but idk if that's also healthy in the long run.

I'm completely lost. I genuinely need opinions and perspectives 😭

just curious bc it every other one is more for pics/no discussion

Like i still have no idea if my friend said fanboy or femboy 😭. ITS TOO SIMILAR. So yea i just pretended i couldnt hear it at all

Any femboys played soccer as a kid and became femboys later on? Loved the shorts, knee socks, and cleats look :3

They're also a good substitute for thigh highs, you can get short shorts, soccer socks (and cleats) if you can't get thigh highs

So me and my bf are a few days away from our 1 year anniversary (it's on Friday :D) and I'm super excited and happy. We're planning on hanging out and taking a walk but I want to do or give him something else but I'm not sure what. It can't be expensive or a far distance from where we are (basically the middle of nowhere), and to top it off his birthday is a week after that. I know he'll be happy just having me, but I feel like I should give him something.

So, ive been a Femboy Furry for the past 1.5 years. And ive told around 10people but not my parents.

Im Bisexual and the thing is, i cant find someone. I prwfer Boy but i just trust 1 person with my Femboy Furry side because he will leave next year to another country. So i have no one.

No BF and no one to trust... where in germany can i find someone. And i hate online friendships, bevause they end after 2 weeks. So yea.... any advice?

(Im 14-17)

I’m from Pakistan, and growing up as a soft, cute, and feminine boy felt like a crime. When I was 13, I moved into a hostel. Around that time, my body was changing in ways I didn’t understand, and the boys at school started making fun of me. They gave me names I still hate remembering and crossed my boundaries by touching me inappropriately.

Eventually, I stopped going outside during lunch breaks and started spending them alone in the classroom. One day, a guy named Abdullah came and sat with me. He acted friendly and made me feel like someone finally cared about me, but he took advantage of my trust and crossed a serious boundary without my consent. Afterwards, rumours spread around the classroom, and people blamed me instead of listening to my side. I tried to explain what had happened, but nobody believed me. Slowly, my classmates started avoiding me, and I was left feeling completely alone. My best friend was still around, but he lived in another hostel building, so we could only spend time together on weekends.

Eventually, Abdullah became my friend and roommate. Another, older student also repeatedly touched me inappropriately, making me feel uncomfortable and unsafe. I finally reported him, and he was removed from the hostel.

Ironically, Abdullah was the person who helped me cope with everything that had happened. I trusted him because he seemed to understand me, but he gradually manipulated that trust and pressured me into sexual situations I wasn't ready for. I was depressed, lonely, and desperate for affection, so even the smallest amount of kindness meant a lot to me. Over time, I became emotionally attached to him. He was my first experience of intimacy and affection, and I thought I had finally found someone who genuinely cared about me. It took me a long time to realise how manipulative he had been.

After he left, I slowly started making friends again and rebuilding my social life. But by then, I had already started smoking cigarettes and vaping because I thought it would help me fit in and look cool. Eventually, I became addicted.

Later, I got into a relationship with another roommate. We eventually broke up, but he kept our relationship a secret because he was afraid of being bullied. I also experimented with cross-dressing when I went home, but people continued making fun of my appearance. I even tried changing my body by gaining weight because I thought it might make the teasing stop, but it didn't solve anything.

After spending five years in that hostel, I felt like a completely different person. Now I'm 19, genderfluid, and polysexual, and honestly, I'm still trying to figure out what I want from life.

I do have good friends now, and my best friend is still in my life. But he doesn't know any of this, and I'm not ready to tell him. Living in Pakistan makes it difficult to be open about who I am. I'm afraid that if my parents, friends, or other people found out, they might reject me or treat me differently. For now, I'm keeping this part of my life private until I can hopefully move somewhere I feel safer being myself.

What hurts the most is that I didn't realise Abdullah was manipulating me and using me for his own pleasure until after he had left. While he was still there, he told me that our senior had found out about us and wanted a favour from him. He made me believe that I had to do this to protect him or make things right. So I stayed alone in my room, trusting what Abdullah had told me. When the senior came in, he took advantage of me. I didn't fully understand what was happening until it was over. I cried the entire night, feeling violated, betrayed, and completely helpless. I was already struggling with loneliness and depression, and that experience made everything so much worse. Looking back, I realise how deeply Abdullah had manipulated me and how he had used my trust and vulnerability for his own benefit. I didn't understand it at the time because I genuinely believed he cared about me.

I know this was long, but I've kept so much of it to myself for years. I just needed somewhere to let it out. I'm not sharing this because I want pity. I just wanted to tell my story somewhere without having to pretend that none of it happened.

Soo, I'm closeted rn and have to present masc when I go out.. well, at home too cuz I live with my family. Anyways, the thing is, I've got a really small waist, about 26in, and men's jeans don't really fit me without buckling a belt all the way around 😅 (which is very uncomfortable btw, plus I hate men's jeans they're too boring)

I once tried a women's jeans at home, got busted instantly 😅... So, I was wondering, are there any types of women's jeans or pants that I can wear without making it obvious that they're women's?? Thanks a lot ^^

So I'm trying to look more feminine. But military grooming and clothing standards are making it hard. Is it possible to be more feminine in the military? If so then how?

Im not ready to commit to hard to anything yet but I really like the feminine side of me and I would really like to have just a wider lower body in general ( hips, thighs). I’ve worn crop tops that my girlfriend has lended me mainly just by myself and with her because I don’t have the guts to put them on anywhere else and I would really like to be able to wear them with something cute for bottom ( skirt, mini sorts, etc). But I would really like to have wider hips and thighs to pull that off. Any advice? Thxxxxxxx >v<

So guys as the title says i m feeling too much feminine energy channeling inside me recently😭😭

Like i had a feminine voice and body type (twink) but i nvr used to act like one before... not saying being feminine is bad but i just dont know why i m feeling extra soft and weird nowadays...

Its like now i dont even try to look masc or stuff.. if my hips sway i try to let it even more 🧑‍🦯 so i wanna ask all the feminie guys out there if its good thing or something i shld be concerned abt 😭😭...

And also nowadays i feel like a female villain out of a daily soaps😂😂

WHERE are you guys getting clothes INPERSON not on Amazon or wtv website I am obviously on the taller side aswell so I always like to try stuff on but I don’t know any places to buy stuff in Toronto in person

Now I’m not a feminine boy, but he is, keep in mind we are both in high school.

I (17M) likes a boy lets call him Connor (16M) in my theater class. we talk pretty much every day and he talks with one of his friends who's a girl, talking about "am i crazy for thinking that?" and he talks to one of our mutual friends (lets call him Owen) while looking at me saying the same thing, and Owen says "no, thats why I’m trying to make it happen" but our mutual friend hasn't talked to me about it. I've already told Owen that i find him attractive and i think i like Connor, and Owen teased me for it for a bit, but then connor started talking to somebody so i dropped it, and started liking a girl, long story short, she rejected me so i dropped it. I’m thinking of telling Owen that i like Connor again, but i don't know if Connor likes someone else, should i drop it or try something?

i could really use some help with this.

I just put on makeup for the first time and It looked horrible, I've never done it before and it was very obvious