r/feminineboys • • Jan 06 '26

Discussion if you are a minor i honestly recommend you read this…

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I’m going to say this how it is supposed to because it needs to be said and I do not think I have seen a single person mention it all.

If you are a minor (under 18), sexualizing yourself online is not empowerment, it is extremely dangerous.

I do not care if “everyone is doing it” because I do not, seeing thighs or bulges from a 13 year old child is absolutely disgusting especially when I am 17, and these are coming from teen subreddits.

I will prob sound like your parent or legal guardian when I say this but whatever you post, it is in sharpie. It will never leave the internet. People screenshotting, downloading or even worse, in places you will never see. (ie: the dark web on websites where creeps sell certain types of images).

Deleting a single reddit post doesn’t erase it. The image stays on Reddits internal servers, Screenshots exist. Archives exist. Private DMs get leaked. Stuff you post at Age 14 can resurface when you’re Aged 18, applying for college, jobs, or just trying to live your life.

The internet will never forget — even if you forget.

Posting Sexualised images of minors is illegal in many places, even if you post them yourself. That means:

• Platforms can report it

• Accounts can be investigated

• Parents can be contacted

• Police can get involved

You don’t get a free pass just because it was “your choice.” Also, the ones accessing it will also be breaking the law.

I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to keep you safe from the creeps of Reddit. The mass amounts of DMs I have had to deal with over the years shouldn’t be relived. Please keep yourself safe.


r/feminineboys • • Nov 15 '25

Discussion This is a community by femboys for femboys. With that in mind, some advice to visitors:

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We do not want to hear how horny femboys make you. No one wants to hear that.

We do not want to hear how much you want to date/cuddle/copulate with a femboy. It makes you look desperate.

If you want a friend who’s a femboy while not being one yourself, fine, but you better have a normal explanation as to why specifically it has to be a femboy.

We are not “better women” or replacements for them. If women are rejecting you on mass, it ain’t them it’s you. It’s insulting to suggest we have lower standards or would want to be your backup.

Building on that, we are not all magically more empathetic and “soft” than women. Don’t use us to justify misogyny.

This is not a dating pool. Go away. Bye bye.

This is not a place for you to experiment.

I do not care how innocent or wholesome your intentions are, the rules of the subreddit are clear. This isn’t a place to inflict your desires onto us.

We are not trans women. Femboys and trans women are two different groups, none of which exist solely for your gratification.

We will check your post history and if it’s just low effort hookup posts, bye bye.

Finally. Yes. It’s gay. Deal with it. (Edit: I mean it’s gay to like femboys if you are a guy.)

Edit 2: Not only is this not a place to find love/intercourse/femboys in general, this is also not a place to find personal therapists. Femboys are not here for you to trauma dump on, we are people too.

Edit 3 (yes we’re still going): We are not all gay. Some are straight, bi, ace etc. Even the ones who are gay are not exclusive to a specific dynamic (bottom). If you think femboys are all gay bottoms, I recommend you log off of orange and black YouTube and go outside.


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Anyone else love being feminine a little TOO much? 💗🥺

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Hey boys 💕 I've been exploring my feminine side lately, and honestly… I'm loving it more than I expected. 😳 I love dressing like a girl, looking feminine, and being treated like a woman. There's something about it that just makes me feel good. 💋

I've been with men multiple times, and I genuinely enjoy it. 😉 Lately, though, I've been wondering if this is more than just enjoying being a femboy. Sometimes I imagine having a more feminine body and even living as a woman someday, and the idea is honestly really exciting.

I'm still figuring things out, and I'm not ready to rush into anything. For those of you who've been through something similar:

How did you figure out whether you were a feminine guy, gender-fluid, or possibly a trans girl?

Any advice or personal experiences would mean a lot. 🥰💕


r/feminineboys • • 14h ago

Support Got my first thigh highs!!!!!

80 Upvotes

Yippeeeeeeeee

Ffs, edit: Ew, no, you can not see.


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

Advice Use thongs

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Well I buy my first one thongs and I want to use it but I’m afraid someone noticed it in my family or friends inclusive where I hide them because for now I hide all my fem stuff on my backpack but If someone one want to know where are inside my back it’s going to be hard for me and my family they so godamn homophobics and And let's say some conservative parents find out that their son wears thongs and dresses like a woman they'd get pretty angry.


r/feminineboys • • 6h ago

Advice I hate body hair so much and it’s making me want to be feminine less

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A few months ago, I figured out I enjoyed being feminine and, since then, I’ve ordered clothes etc. to fit that kind of look, but every time I shave my body, it comes back in like 3 days in a small prickly form AND on top of that I’ll get red bumps like on my thighs (which probably makes me less cute) and it really annoys me because it just makes me feel less feminine. And I can’t ever shave my back or my butt simply because I’m not really great at getting those spots, and most hair removal creams can't be used on intimate areas or chest/back. I also really don’t like facial hair shadow. It makes my already objectively masculine face look even MORE masculine and I hate it. I am looking for answers that don’t really consist of “laser hair removal” because I’m basically poor.


r/feminineboys • • 12h ago

problems with ma booty shorts D:

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i got ma new booty shorts from amazon the waist fits fine cuz im real thin but its cotton or whatever and its stretchy n stuff and it likes to go up alot and make it look even shorter than it already is and it makes my JUNK poke out alot

amazons the only way i buy stuff rn im wondering if anyone bought a pair before that doesnt stretch lots and doesnt highlight my junk in 4k ultra hd cuz its really offputting preferrably a different material that doesnt stretch much or something


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Happy day

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I can't believe I'm making another post on same day but today was just great for me. After shopping for my first set of feminine clothes my sister wanted to paint my nails. It's something we had talked about before but I guess she got some new nail polish and wanted to try it out. I ended up painting my nails blue and purple and they look super cute now!!! I love it!!! At this point I'm considering coming out to my family they haven't said anything negative so far in fact it's been quite the opposite. It was just a good day for me and I wanted to share it.


r/feminineboys • • 28m ago

Support where can i buy femboy clothes?

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(in physical stores cuz i can't buy anything online)


r/feminineboys • • 8h ago

Help with being a femboy

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I’m 14 and close to being 15 and I’ve wanted to explore my feminine side a lot more. I’m scared to tell my parents and open up about it but I really want to dress up. however my parents monitor my purchases and are Christian, meaning they wouldn’t like me doing this, at all. and if anyone would like to, share some tips about fashion with being a femboy.


r/feminineboys • • 14h ago

Too late to the party?

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I just turned 39, gray hairs coming in, and only recently full embraced who I am as a person. Im happily married and not looking to start a new life or anything, and my wife is surprisingly incredibly supportive, even to the point if I wanted to transition. Buuuut I look in the mirror and all I see are the wrinkles, the gray chin hair, and i just ask myself did I wait too long? Should I even bother knowing I won't ever actually look like what I could have had I not been so afraid for all my best decades?...

I dont know what to do...

Edit: You all have been so kind im tearing up at work. Thank you ❤️


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Support I want support

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Gah- so much stuff

I really hate my body- Id love advice on how to fix certain aspects, thighs, height, waist, skin, etc. but I also don't wanna do anything drastic. I just want like- everyday things I could maybe do.

Theres a lot of unrelated things that are making me sad- but thats unrelated mostly, I just feel like its making this amplified.

Also- if anyone has makeup advice, or advice on how to wash fem clothes if I can't use my washing machine, that'd also be appreciated.

Please and thank youuuu :3

Have a great dayyy ^>⩊<^


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

Do any other femboys other than me listen to three days grace?

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Some of my fav songs :3

The mountain, so what, a scar is born, broken glass and mayday :3 (not in order btw)


r/feminineboys • • 16h ago

Bought my first fem clothes

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My mom took me shopping today cause I "don't have any clothes" . We spent over an hour at the thrift store looking at clothes. I'm still closeted so I didn't get anything from the actual women's section but I got a bunch of unisex tops and brighter colors. I'm hoping there's something that will make me look more fem in a casual way.

My mom did ask me about a dress tho. Like mot in a joking manner. She held up a dress and went "oh that's a dress. What do you think?" I froze and she didn't end up getting it but like what did she mean by that?!?! Was that aimed at me?!?! Does she suspect something?!?!

I don't know I'm just excited to have new clothes that are more my style.


r/feminineboys • • 1d ago

Discussion Why do all femboys have a fluffy shark plushie? 😭

134 Upvotes

Don't know the trend.


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Advice Tips?

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Well hi, as you can tell by my username I’m not really too public, I mean I’ve only really told one person this so I’m honestly scared as hell to even press the post button, but I’m going to get into it

So when I was 13 I found comfort in woman’s clothing, I mean it felt comfortable, it felt like me as well, keep in mind I’m 17 (almost 18) now, I found comfort in this when I was also in one of the worst places in my life as well

And the tips I’m wondering is any clothing tips, like what’s any clothes you could recommend to someone, I’m already thinking about skirts, but maybe that’s abit too early, I do like how they feel tho, but anywho I might explore make up soon, I have always liked it as well so if you guys have any tips for that that’ll be great

Sorry if I clicked the wrong thing tho, I don’t really use reddit, and the only times I was on this page in the past was on my main account and I just liked how you lot were open, and I felt like this would be the best for tips, I’m gonna stop ranting before I scare myself out of posting this tho


r/feminineboys • • 26m ago

Discussion Should i go for more crop tops or oversized sweaters

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Ive been meaning to expand my items a little before my military service which is next year.
And i want to start with clothes?

Would appreciate an opinion!


r/feminineboys • • 23h ago

Discussion Why do femboys essentially turn it into an identity?

58 Upvotes

So, I am a random bystander, I haven’t gone deep into the community, but from what Ive perceived, femboys treat it as a whole new identity, have come-outs, sometimes transition and whatever other things. Essentially they are getting dangerously close to the border where a style turns into just straight up wanting to be a woman, they might’ve even crossed it. When I look at tomboys, they are just women who decided to wear something a bit more masculine, they don’t come out to anyone, they don’t wanna look like men. So my question is, why is it so much more of an identity for femboys?


r/feminineboys • • 5h ago

How do I find you on dating apps?

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I am explicitly NOT looking for dating here.

I'm about to sign up to dating apps and they usually have a gender filter that has the options male, female and nonbinary. I'd want to exclude men. However, as a trans woman open to queer people I don't want to exclude femboys. If you are using dating apps: Which gender marker are you using so that I don't filter you out?


r/feminineboys • • 2h ago

androgynous/not full fem date night fits

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hello all,

for conext, personally im not sure im a person that likes to dress full fem in public. i have my andro look down pretty good for public and i enjoy dressing up/just generally getting femboyd up around the house with my partner.

where i do not have my look down is on a date with my partner to a nice or kind of fancy place. we dont really go anywhere like with a dress code or anything but they like to get dressed up and they look so beautiful.

i would also like to dress up and look and feel nice, but it feels like nice clothing for such an occasion is one side or the other; dresses, nice skirts, etc are a little too fem for my level of comfort in public, and polo shirts, suits, and the like make me feel uncomfortably masculine. looking for advice on nice androgynous outfits that just have that touch of fem that doesnt stand out egregiously but helps me feel femboy on a date

only things ive thought of are like fancy sweaters that i would intentionally get oversized and like some of the really nice streetwear or luxury brands (knockoff lol) thats like a plain white t but made with very nice material and some jewelry. any ideas welcome. thank you for reading


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

Advice need advice with femboy stuff :3

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hey everyone!! i need advice on femboy stuff :3 as i think my family would be unaccepting of me being a femboy. i dont have a card so i cant buy stuff online and theres no way im going out in public to a store to buy fem stuff, i feel too scared to do that. and i think my friends would find out if i did. i have made some stuff on my own, but their not good.. and i would like proper fem clothes and not bad diy stuff, but i am really scared my friends and family would find out. if you have any advice please let me know! :3


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Need advice

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Hi I am 19 year old cis male I really wanna try wearing panties under my clothes but i keep getting nervous. Can anyone give me some advice?


r/feminineboys • • 13h ago

What should I get for thigh-high issues?

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Going here for a few things because I found it fair to guess that you all would know!
I found (or rather, my mom found) a fairly cheap pair of thigh highs and a skort on Amazon, but said thigh-highs do keep slipping down... which does check out, without a silicone strip or anything. My prosthetic leg's socks do the same anyway, but the annoying part comes when I'm trying to wear them under pants. Unlike my prosthetic, I can't use velcro on it to keep them up, and they're much higher on my leg than the socks meaning that I can't roll my pants up to reach and adjust them. Soooo I need to try and get something to keep the socks up. Any suggestions?

Note: Something simple on Amazon would be preferred here, hopefully nothing leather unless there's no other choice. Also, if mentioning I have a prosthetic is a rule 3 violation, then, uh... Sorry. It is somewhat necessary for this general conversation though so please don't shoot my post-