Straight and Lesbian At Once?

[u/Open-Instance-555]

Exactly what it says. I’m transmasculine and genderqueer….sometimes I vacillate between being a trans het man and other times I’m a nonbinary stud. Does this make sense? I’m 26, I’ve been out as lesbian since 2014, and haven’t really engaged with validity discourse since high school. I’ve been on T for almost five years and I’m almost four years post top surgery, and I love the way I look which I would classify as pretty masculine. Anyone else feel the same or am I a straight trans guy who’s culturally tied to lesbianism? I understand I’m the only one who knows how I truly feel, but sometimes my internalized transphobia tells me “I’m confusing” and “need to pick a side.”

[u/iam305]

There are entire subs for nonbinary lesbians. If the shoe fits, wear it.