r/legaladvicecanada • u/mfdotcom • 10h ago
Saskatchewan How to report concern, or request a wellness check on a Canadian from Europe? What can I do in this situation?
story goes:
I am from and in Europe, and I have a friend online who’s from canada and lives in canada. We became friends this year and talked almost every day for a couple months on TikTok messages and snapchat messages and photo / video, a lot of voice messages, and sometimes they went live on TikTok. We didnt exchange phone numbers due to being in different countries. They have been absent from replying like 2-3 days at a time but always come back and say they had a bunch of stuff going on in life, or with other people, or a romantic partner they recently started texting again (I have no name) that they perviously had dated and broken up with. So they were always somewhat online or in contact with someone, just didn’t get back to replying / catching up to all friends immediately.
But more than month ago their contact stopped, and their digital footprint stopped completely on the platforms I know they use, snap score hasn’t moved at all in over a month and TikTok is inactive (no reposts replies as usual) I have sent messages and called on snapchat and TikTok, and I didn’t know how to get in contact otherwise. No active status on snapchat. This person does not have personal information online or uses many social media platforms, they do not have any immediate family is my understanding (dead parents).
Last week I found one of their other online friends, and they also said they had not heard anything, but had their number, called but calls stopped going through as if the phone was turned off, and said other people had asked about their whereabouts as well. This friend showed me messaged between them before they went silent, and after trying to get a response.
This made me abandon my "reassuring thought" of them just hopefully ghosting everyone and I contacted the police in my country, they filed a report and escalated it to the international crime department (or something) so they could send a report to Canadian authorities and hopefully look into their whereabouts / wellness check, they said they would get back to me with an update, but today after a week I called to check up on it and the other department say they didn’t get enough to forward it to the police in canada so they never did.. I asked them to kindly forward my wish to try again (he will try and call me back later today, but said not to get my hopes up)
I have first and middle name, name of the province, phone number, date of birth, and socials. I gave them all of this last week
I understand it might not be enough to go straight to their home, but somewhat narrow it down and check on their whereabouts, check if someone matching their credentials (name, date of birth, phone number) is hospitalised or found something? I tried calling Canadian authorities myself but calls to outside the EU / EEA are blocked and I have to change my phone carrier completely to be able to, I can't even buy calls to outside of the EU, I tried.
Is there some way I can do this myself from Europe, file a report or something, anything? Would canadian authorities look into this with this little information or will they also dismiss it - or do I have to take my own countrys claim that it’s too sparse for an answer? do I have to change my phone carrier to report something to authorities?
Ps: - I am not trying to identify anyone, I dont need more personal information about them than what I have - I dont care if they are ghosting everyone or does not want anything to do with me or other online friends, and I dont need info about their whereabouts, I just need to know someone knows about them and that someone knows if they are okay or not.