r/rape • u/AffectionateMine8502 • 1d ago
Can I get pregnant after being raped while I was on my period?
the story is below if anyone is wondering what happened i explained it in the end
Can I get pregnant after being raped while I was on my period?
I’m really worried and need some advice because I’m scared I could be pregnant.
A guy raped me, and during the encounter, he ejaculated on my chest and face. He didn’t wipe the semen off and then put it inside my vagina and penetrated me for a few minutes. He continued doing sexual things to me even though I told him to stop and that it hurt.
I was on my period at the time, and I’m still bleeding. I’m worried because I don’t know how likely pregnancy is in this situation.
I took Plan B after an earlier encounter, but I’m not sure whether it protects me from this encounter.
My questions are:
* Can I get pregnant if he put semen inside my vagina while I was on my period?
* Does being on my period lower the risk of pregnancy?
* Does Plan B taken after an earlier encounter protect me from this one?
* When should I take a pregnancy test?
I’m really scared and overwhelmed by everything that happened. Please be kind. I’m looking for genuine advice and support, not judgment.
If you want to understand what happened and why I’m calling it rape, I’ve written my full story at the end of this post. You can read it if you want, but please don’t feel obligated to.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
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My story (TW: sexual assault, choking, physical violence)
I met this guy online, and we started talking before meeting in person. When we first met, he made a comment about how cute it would be if he murdered me. At the time, I didn’t know what to make of it.
During our sexual encounters, things happened that I wasn’t comfortable with. I asked him to slow down because it hurt, and I told him to stop multiple times, but he continued. He held my wrists tightly and wouldn’t let go until I managed to push him off. He also tried to use zip ties even though I said no several times.
He choked me with his hands until I was struggling to breathe. He hit me repeatedly and hard enough that my head hurt from that night into the following afternoon. He used degrading language toward me and continued sexual activity despite my pain and bleeding.
I’m still trying to process everything that happened. Part of me feels confused about the experience and how I reacted to it, and I’m struggling with the fact that I might become pregnant afterward.
I’m posting because I need advice about pregnancy risk, Plan B, and when to test. I’m also trying to understand what happened to me and hear from people who can respond with kindness and understanding.
Please be respectful in the comments. I’m already having a difficult time dealing with this.
is this rape? and sexual assult??
i bled during the sex and he nutted and then put it in me after and said i didn’t think because i was so horny can i still get pregnant after couple minutes of sex? okay so im genuinely so confused about everything that happened and i need ppl to be honest with me because idk how to process any of this.
im a virgin and i literally wasnt planning on having sex for my first time yet. like i wasnt ready for all of this, but when i was with him i was scared that if i said no or didnt do what he wanted, he would get upset with me, hate me, or not like me anymore. i was scared of how he would react and i feel like that made it harder for me to say no.
i do have kinks and he knew a little bit about them, but that doesnt mean i agreed to everything he wanted to do to me.
things got really rough and he tried to use zip ties on me and i kept telling him NO over and over, like 3-4 times. when i asked him what he was doing, i genuinely thought he was taking the condom off and was gonna rape me. i was actually scared because i didnt know wtf he was about to do.
he was holding my wrists so tightly that i had to push his hands off me. he kept telling me to fight him off and resist him, which was weird asf because i was already scared. he was also choking me with his hands to the point where i couldnt breathe properly, and he kept hitting me really hard over and over again.
when i was trying to get him to stop, he said “i dont care.” LIKE??? that shit has genuinely been stuck in my head because why would you say that when someone is scared and telling you no??
he also said something about me waiting for this to be used, and idk how to feel about that either.
i had a headache afterwards too.
the thing is, i wasnt even planning on losing my virginity like this. i was scared that if i refused to do things, he would get mad, hate me, or not want me anymore. i feel like i was scared of disappointing him or making him upset, and i dont even know how to explain it.
im so confused because this was my first time and i never thought id be sitting here trying to figure out whether what happened was okay or not. i keep thinking about everything and wondering why he acted like that when i was clearly scared.
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u/Both_Wash908 14h ago
first things first, i am so sorry ❤️ but yes it is unlikely but it is possible. go get a morning after pill. you can get a generic brand one for like $6 at the costco pharmacy (no costco card needed) or at any pharmacy for around $50. different pregnancy tests have different timelines so follow the box instructions based on your cycle to test for peace of mind
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u/Outrageous_Being7853 1d ago
I’m sorry to say but yes. I hope your okay and you don’t deserve what happened. Yes you can still get pregnant well on your period and r@ped. Try the morning after pill or do a pregnancy test maybe.
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