I posted on Reddit looking for a job and got this kind of message instead…
I recently made a post on Reddit saying that I’m looking for opportunities in AI/ML, GenAI, Python, etc. I genuinely thought Reddit could be a good place to connect with people and find job/internship opportunities.
A guy messaged me saying something like:
«“Hey Nisha, how is it going? Just checking on your job/internship requirements.”»
So I replied normally and told him that my job search was still going on.
He then said he was looking for “good women to work along with,” which I initially interpreted as a professional opportunity.
He asked for my LinkedIn, which I shared. Then he asked for pictures. I told him I didn't have professional pictures. After that, he asked if I had Telegram. I said no.
Then he said he wanted to ask me something and asked:
“Are you open women?”
I honestly didn't understand what he meant, so I asked him what he meant by “open” — whether he meant being frank or comfortable talking openly.
He clarified that he meant it in a sexual/relationship context.
Then he said:
«“A bit of gf kinda!!!! Will take care good of that person for sure and won't touch anyone without consent,,, as a start a movie or lunch,,, apart from work”»
And then:
«“Bonus if you smokeup”»
I was genuinely shocked.
I was talking to him because I thought he was contacting me regarding work, not because I was looking for a relationship or anything sexual.
I eventually told him that I was genuinely looking for a job and that I thought Reddit was a good platform for finding jobs and connecting with a good community.
I'm sharing this because I don't want to discourage women from using Reddit for career opportunities, but please be careful when someone approaches you through a job-seeking post.
Has anyone else experienced something similar while looking for jobs/internships on Reddit?
And for the guys here: if you're genuinely recruiting someone, please keep it professional. A person saying they're looking for a job is not an invitation for a romantic or sexual proposition.