r/singleph • u/infiniteaz1 • Aug 25 '26
💬 Casual Conversations 29 [M4A] I need your advice all of you.
Currently Im dating this girl and I met her here. Its been 2 months and ok naman kami. Pero may isang part po na sobrang disturbing saakin. Iniwan niya yung cellphone niya habang nasa cr siya and pinapabantay saakin pati rin yung bag. Nung nag notify yung phone niya nabasa ko sa lockscreen and saying "Lumayo kasa asawa ko kundi kakasuhan kita".
Nabigla ako nung nabasa ko yan, pero di ko na pinakealaman yung cellphone niya since di naman saakin pero literal na nag appear siya lockscreen notification.
Kung nandito ka man, I just wanna let you know na I will stop communicating with you. Sorry
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u/Dazzling-Natural-278 Aug 25 '26
Tapos prank lang pala ng tropa nya no? Kaya pinabantayan sayo op kase planted na yung prank HAHAHA
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u/cyst2exist Aug 25 '26
Tigil mo na yan tol. Lason yan. Kung ano man reason bakit niya iniwan sa'yo gamit niya wag mo na alamin. Hanap ka nalang iba
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u/infiniteaz1 Aug 25 '26
Yes, salamat tinigil ko na rin. Dito ko na rin siya nakilala, hayaan ko na lang na mabasa niya
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u/meliadul Aug 25 '26 edited Aug 25 '26
Kesa nagtatanong ka here, eh why not confront her about the truth?
Edit: Slightly invested ako. Gusto ko rin malaman hahaha
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u/infiniteaz1 Aug 25 '26
its better not to know. Poison na to if i keep on going
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u/meliadul Aug 25 '26
There's a chance you could be wrong, and that you can still save the relationship
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u/knyxieee Aug 25 '26
Maybe just take it as a sign. May something complicated si girl that she might not have shared with you. Atleast ngayon palang alam mo na, hindi na tumagal pa
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u/DullIntroduction8029 Aug 25 '26
Hmm, what if sadya na ipabasa sayo yun, OP? Para layuan mo sya kasi hindi ka nya type? Like it was just an act. Kasi ako hindi ko basta basta iiwan ang bag ko sa tao na hindi ko pa matagal na kilala kasi what if itakbo bag ko? Sorry basag trip ako sa comment ko.
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u/NoCommand1031 Aug 25 '26
Make sense, yan din naiisip ko. Napaka halaga ng phone at di ko yun iiwan sa kung sino sino lang. But tamadin naman na umiwas na si OP sa babae na yun kasi napakalaking sakit ng ulo yan kapag nagpatuloy pa
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u/infiniteaz1 Aug 25 '26
no, dont say sorry ok lang saakin. Naging comfortable siguro saakin yung tao na yan kaya ganun nangyari. Wholesome naman kami pareho pero sa side niya doon palang ako nadisappoint
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u/cancerianthology Aug 25 '26
Plot twist: ikaw pala yung asawa jk
But seriously, two months pa lang naman kayo, and that notification alone already screams unnecessary drama. After that, hindi na rin yan mawawala sa isip mo. Lagi mo na lang iisipin kung nagchi-cheat ba siya sayo or what, so save yourself the headache habang maaga pa. Dating pa lang naman kayo, so good for you for cutting her off. Hindi mo kailangang hintayin pang madamay sa gulong hindi mo naman pinasok.
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u/Intelligent_Yak_1718 Aug 25 '26
what advice do u need pa, stop it na. some have skeletons in their closet and minalas ka
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u/infiniteaz1 Aug 25 '26
I dont know. Nadismaya ako nung tinaype ko yung post. Akala ko smooth na kasi lahat lahat yun naman pala di pala
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u/Intelligent_Yak_1718 Aug 25 '26
same thing nangyari sakin, naiwan cp nya tapos nag notif "panindigan mo to" yun pala nakabuntis ng iba tapos tinatakbuhan
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u/Big_Accident_6173 Aug 27 '26
Run, bro, run. Leave no trace behind.