r/solotravel • u/senitat • 3h ago
Question Question for regular solo travelers
Hello everyone
Just for some context:
Lately I’ve been traveling on day trips by myself as a person who never even thought about it before. I do not own a car as I live in the capital city of my country so I have started to make trips wherever I could with buses and trains. As I am not really a planner and as a big introvert I find myself not knowing what to do with this much thought process going on in my head. I managed to somehow start small talk with strangers that happen to sit near me but as I never really spend a lot time alone until this point of my life. (I come from a big family)
How do you guys deal with being alone with your thoughts so much? I listen to music on the go and read books but after some time it becomes too much so I find myself wishing I had someone I can talk to. It is not that I don’t like the experience of being just by myself. It can be really freeing. I just wish I was more of a person that will start conversations….but the thought of approaching someone in real life really terrifies me. Sometimes I get really lost in my own thoughts and let’s just say it is not really nice…
How do you guys deal?
Just want to finish up with saying that I really admire everyone here and love reading the stories in this subreddit.
Thank you for reading.