r/stories • u/Last-Delivery5389 • 2d ago

Venting Please help me with your thoughts and opinions

31M and my wife 33F
Married for three years, very minimal physical contact(once in 3-4 months)
I started watching online porn and chat with online girls(telegram - Philippines) to satisfy myself.
We had a baby , she found out that i have been doing this online things.
I apologized and begged to her for that
She hit me multiple times and threatened me (destroying my career and image in society)
She decided to leave me
luckily i got saved from a thing which i thought of doing it considering it as an end
Few weeks later she started distancing me and my daughter and she then accused me that i am a pervert and she cant let the baby (2 month old )near me
I lost myself in that accusation , i never did something bad to my baby
We got separated and i sought therapy
Now we re seeking divorce
I scared to even look at my baby

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u/GlassAdmirer 2d ago

Did you seriously just whined about wife not having sex with you 8 weeks after giving birth?

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

You misunderstood the timeline,
I mentioned as “no physically intimacy post marriage”
We had been married for more than 3 years and it was during these three years

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u/catslikepets143 2d ago

I can tell you that humans repeat enjoyable experiences often.

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

Can you elaborate this

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u/catslikepets143 2d ago

If sex is enjoyable then they will like to have sex often. If it’s only enjoyable for one person why bother

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

Okay

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u/catslikepets143 2d ago

And that’s a tough question to ask your partner, because it forces you to realize you’ve been selfish about that. But those hard questions need to be asked so sex is enjoyable for both, or once every 3-4 months will be your normal

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

Okay got it

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u/EUMedSailor Cuck-ologist: Studying the Art of Being a Cuck 1d ago

Are you really sure you get it? What classes or education have you completed to improve your skill levels?

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u/Cyrious123 Professional Flooziness Award Winner (Self-Appointed) 2d ago

Where did it say that?

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u/Calm_Lab_8793 2d ago

bahi unse baat karoo aur bolo hamari galti se hogaya itna distance rakha ,,,but meh yh sab nahin chahata pls maaf kardo ...let me give chance or don't seek divorce and ruin like of three , you have a small kid as well

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

I begged to her that we should not separate
But her physical abuse and accusations broke me

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u/Calm_Lab_8793 13h ago

then fhir wo accusations or chatting vetting toh bahana h(thodi galti toh aapse bhi hogayi anyways) ...use separate hona h kul mila ke ...mast reh aur aage bado....maa chudaye wo

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u/Last-Delivery5389 13h ago

I am trying bro,thanks

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u/Cyrious123 Professional Flooziness Award Winner (Self-Appointed) 2d ago

You should have charged her with abuse! Get that baby from her if she wont get mental help.

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u/EUMedSailor Cuck-ologist: Studying the Art of Being a Cuck 1d ago

Strongly disagree

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

I believe you cannot hit someone when you love them

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u/Cyrious123 Professional Flooziness Award Winner (Self-Appointed) 2d ago

Your point?

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u/Last-Delivery5389 2d ago

I believed that she didn’t love me and hit me
Accusations about my daughter made me feel broken and distance myself from them

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u/Least-Ad-12 1d ago

Go start a new family at this point

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u/Last-Delivery5389 19h ago

I don’t feel the energy to invest in someone again