r/strange • u/Mission_Practice_846 • 2d ago
notes from my friends ex boyfriend
they've been broken up for 5 months haven't talked since and he's blocked on every platform. blurred name is mine, this guy is crazy asl
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u/vanillacreamwafer 2d ago
The oily paper is just a cherry on top.
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u/throwaway7742835 2d ago
Are you guys in school? If so you need to show these to a teacher you trust who you know will take it seriously
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u/Gas-Squatch 2d ago edited 2d ago
Your friend needs to drop contact and completely ignore him or leave him a note then ignore him. If she feels threatened or unsafe she needs to file a police report.
Continuing any kind of communication or not setting boundaries he’s going to continue and spiral deeper to where it could definitely be a safety thing.
He has mental health or emotional issues and needs a therapist. Break ups suck and I feel for him but you don’t get better if you don’t try to get better. He’s just trying to go back to what was comfortable
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u/cjalderman 2d ago
Drop contact? Not sure what else they're supposed to do if they haven't talked for 5 months and he's blocked on every platform?
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u/Albsantos 2d ago
Show them to your friend, then ask the cops for advice.
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u/Gas-Squatch 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yes log the interactions with him or attempts he made to contact you. Lots of people don’t and just say he’s bothering me with no evidence. So the police in some jurisdictions can’t do anything about it. But if you have photos or just a log of he showed up at my work on 10/16 at 11am, he called me 9 times on 9/28 between 7-10pm helps with any kind of criminal actions that need taken.
Same goes with ex’s that you share child custody with and they are slipping. She showed up late to pick up the kids on 9/20, he said he can’t take the kids on his weekend on 10/22, he told me I’m a bad mom through text on 9/18.
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