r/teenagers • u/definetlynormal 14 • 3d ago

Relationship anyone who hasnt dated someone yet

im 14 and after my first relationship im telling you guys PLEASE do not date anyone after the eventual breakup you WILL feel sad 24/7.

i was in a few month situationship type thing, she had decided for her own health to back down from our thing, which i respected, obviously, but PLEASE do not go around dating cz after that i was NOT great

and if you ignore me at least pick well

bye

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u/Anonymous_adict 18 3d ago

Ofc sad after a break up that’s normal it’ll take a while to get over it

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u/hoodedfinch 14 3d ago

dont get why people are desperate to date so young anyway

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u/definetlynormal 14 2d ago

i wasnt desperate really, i js realised she liked me i liked her so we kinda js

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u/Dangerous_Score2882 Teenager 3d ago

Because we don't wanna feel alone. Plus you see everyone else getting boyfriends or girlfriends and you wanna join in on getting a romantic partner. Classic herd mentality

Obviously I haven't taken into account the whole hormone thing cuz that's a whole other can of worms, but hopefully this suffices