r/toastme • u/Ill_Book_1156 • 1d ago
I’m losing motivation again
I’ve been hard on myself lately and I’m trying to be more positive about certain things and not compare myself to others. I’ve been feeling a bit lonely too since some people I was close with don’t talk to me anymore and I only have a few friends at college. It’s distracting me in a way.
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u/joshvinvin2323 1d ago
You are absolutely amazing! Please don't compare yourself to others because there will never be another person like you. You are your own authentic, unique person and that's what makes you special and amazing! Please always be yourself and never change! You've got this and I believe in you :)
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u/Awkward-Pie8225 1d ago
I'm sorry you've been feeling this way lately. I know it's not easy, especially when people you used to be close to start drifting away. But please don't let that make you question your worth. And try not to compare yourself to others too much. Everyone has their own struggles, even if they don't always show them. You seem like a genuinely lovely person, and I hope you'll give yourself a little more credit. You deserve to feel good about yourself, and I really hope things get better for you. ❤️
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u/ThatHeroIsYou Let's toast! 1d ago
Firstly, know that you are a valuable human being and the world is a better place because you’re here.
That said, be kind to yourself. Your self-talk makes you or breaks you. I heard someone once say that you have to treat yourself like you’re someone you’re responsible for taking care of.
Brush yourself off. Refocus. Go fourth and conquer.
Keep your chin up today, friend.
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u/Fun-Leadership-3887 1d ago
We all bring something to the world and that’s what makes us special if we were all the same we would never learn anything different or experience anything new and life is a journey and going down any road the scenery changes but there is so much beauty along the way and you add to it I d know what you are into but people come and go and that’s just apart of life but just be yourself and you will find likeminded people along the way
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u/hiwhatsausername 18h ago
i’m sorry you’re going through this difficult time. you deserve friends and support. you deserve to feel confident in yourself. comparison is the thief of joy. just know that this isn’t the end. you will meet new people, build new connections, make new friends. i understand how overwhelmed you must feel rn but girl, i promise, nothing lasts forever. you will get through this !!
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u/BadKauff 1d ago
Sweet friend, sending you a big hug!! Sorry you are feeling down. That's a temporary feeling, so keep taking care of yourself until things turn around.
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u/BogusBluff 1d ago
Beautiful lady, never compare yourself with others. I hope you can find some volunteer opportunities. That's a great way to meet new friends. You will succeed! 💪🙏❣️
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u/Sudden-Ingenuity3033 1d ago
You are a beautiful, strong queen. You will find more people who will support you for who you are.
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u/SmoothOperator621 1d ago
You are so lovely. Sending my love to you
Practice gratitude. Now go be great🤎
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u/proton_papi 1d ago
Fake motivation is better than no motivation. Listen to some tapes for a few weeks and you’ll catch that bug again 🙏 🙇♂️ 💪
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u/TheoryNo8121 1d ago
Find yourself a hobby that happens around people. Some arts and crafts especially ones that have classes to get you started or something like pool or darts or even some card games, euchre comes to mind. You'll be around people with similar interests. Just because darts and pool typically happen around alcohol doesn't mean you have to drink and if you're in a league for either of them the only players likely to be beyond sober will be the ones not playing.
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u/OutrageousPound399 18h ago
Ima say this in the nicest way i am a master of beauty your not as cute as democrat Kamala Harris
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u/chthontastic 1d ago
Remember who you are.
— Mufasa