r/trollingforababy • u/Pitty_Party113 • 2d ago
Embracing full dulu this cycle
Embracing full dulu that this HAS to be our month because of all the “signs” as if I haven’t seen “signs” for numerous months 😅
Feel free to enjoy the delusion with me by sharing what “signs” you’ve seen and/or the woo woo things you’ve done that have convinced you things will work out
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u/BlackShieldCharm The Eggs are Strong with This One 2d ago
I was denied from starting a new ivf cycle this month. Surely that must mean it will definitely happen unassisted this month, right? Right?!
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u/MoreAccountant8593 2d ago
We're taking a break from treatment this month and my gyn routine ultrasound showed I ovulated at some point. Idk when, didnt track. But I'm so sure this is my month anyway 😵💫😂
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u/RazzmatazzAny1435 2d ago
Why am I thinking ovulation pain for two days means I’ve released two eggs and I’m having twins
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u/chin06 2d ago
Feel every month for me is delulu month even in the months where we've missed peak ovulation I keep thinking THIS IS IT lol Not CHATGPT gaslighting me into thinking my PMS are also "early pregnancy" signs.
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u/tenthousandgalaxies 2d ago
ChatGPT is the biggest enabler! But the worst is when even ChatGPT is telling you that you are wrong
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u/laineyloo1682 2d ago
We’re pausing TTC but I already ovulated before we decided… we got a baby blanket in the mail with no known sender and I’m convinced it’s a sign (or a psycho family member ahahah)
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u/tenthousandgalaxies 2d ago
Ironically I had a super realistic dream that I had a son right before I tested positive (ended in a miscarriage). I don't believe in signs at all but if I had had a son it would have freaked me out a bit. So search your dreams lol
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u/SouthpawSeahorse 2d ago
I’m about to hire an Etsy witch- talk to me after then 😅🫠
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u/confusedpotato7782 2d ago
I did that in May and she told me I would conceive a son in July, and I wouldn’t need IVF. It’s now October and I’m 4dp3dt 🤡
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u/Stunning-Smell-3115 2d ago
I got a super woowoo acupuncturist and some Chinese herbs 🙃
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u/confusedpotato7782 2d ago
I did too!! Turns out needles and herbs could not have fixed a blocked tube. Literally set thousands on fire with this one. I did do a few sessions leading up to transfer though but my expectations are currently on the floor..
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u/beepx2lettuce 1d ago
Bro on the direction of a witchy friend of a friend, I drew a crescent moon on an egg and buried it in my backyard. It is delulu o’clock over here, do whatever feels helpful lol
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u/Relative_Steak_1191 2d ago
Does seeing non existent second lines count? 🥲
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u/Stunning-Smell-3115 2d ago
I find some “sign” every month 🙃 Although I only have one tube and I’m pretty sure that’s blocked from endo
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u/BlueberryLover18 P.C.O. Shit 2d ago
My first embryo transfer will be this month which will be a year since my first IUI, most recent loss. I feel like it being 5 days apart is a good sign? DELULU!! 😄
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u/hail_aaayyy 2d ago
I'm with you on the delulu! AF is two days late and I've already had a negative but the SIGNSSS
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u/beepx2lettuce 1d ago
Mine was 2 days late too, so ofc my friend was like “there’s still hope!!” And I was like no!!! there isnt!! my bbt is down and if I was gonna test positive it would have damn well happened by now!! 🙃 and ofc my period started full force the next morning at work. Sigh. Normally I am v with you on the delulu though lol
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u/SnooTomatoes2430 P.C.O. Shit 2d ago
My husband and I have had 4 IUI thus far, tomorrow is IUI #5. My lead follicle was 20 mm yesterday and my endometrium was measuring 8 mm. Both are the biggest numbers I’ve seen the first 3 we used frozen sperm bc he was deployed. If I get pregnant this cycle I’ll be due July 9, most likely will need a C-Section due to hip issues and clotting history, if I get to pick my due date I’m picking my husbands birthday (at his request) for July 1.
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u/Pitty_Party113 2d ago
This is actually a little bit similar. I’m on IUI #3 (also tomorrow!!) so I’m assuming 3rd times the charm. My numbers were so much better this round after switching meds too (8.2mm lining which is double from previous cycles). I had a lead follicle at 16.5mm and my IUI is tomorrow the 16th and it is our 16th cycle, so I’m assuming this is a sign lol. I’ve been seeing the number 11 so often and if we are successful, 40 weeks from my last period is 7/11 which is very close to our anniversary (and the 2nd anniversary of TTC as well). I could go on 😂
Wishing you success!! 🤞🏼
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u/SnooTomatoes2430 P.C.O. Shit 2d ago
Unironically I posted in the IUI sub about 3rd times the charm hahahah. Our anniversary is 8/23 I also triggered this morning and idk if it’s fucking with me or what but I am TIRED. It’s 8 pm and I’m ready for bed. I wish you the best of luck 💕
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u/Pitty_Party113 2d ago
I also triggered this morning and am exhausted as well but 11pm for me! Good luck tomorrow ♥️
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u/onebirdtwobird 1d ago
My next transfer is Tuesday (after the last 2 ended in MMCs) and the estimated due date is my husband’s birthday! Trying to not be completely delulu about it since our first transfers EDD was our anniversary, but it’s a kind of sweet thing amid all this shit.
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u/LooLootime 1d ago
Coming back to the test days later to see the Evap line. Just to feel something. Still negative 😂
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u/hashtag2020 2d ago
The only way to keep trudging through this journey is to be in a constant state of delulu tbh